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  • 29-09-2010 12:44pm
    #1
    waiting 2010
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    I have no control over my life I did not choose the job I am in I grabbed it out of desperation and fear of the recession used to be a confident person and these past few months have eaten away at me.I used to think I was attractive but my hair has become thin and my body out of shape,so that part of me has changed. I want to change so many things I want to be me again I want to feel free and not constantly worried about money and friendships which are no longer in existence. People don’t want to listen to what I have to say because all I say is clouded with doubt and harsh words from the circumstances I am forced to indure.I feel like I am constantly waiting for my life to happen,for my boyfriend to move to my city,for us to settle down,for me to get a better job,to travel,to learn new things to feel alive again.

    But the problem is these things cost money something which takes time to build time means being suck in this part of my life for longer.I’m just waiting is there anyone else just waiting too?


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  • #2
    boobar
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,226 ✭✭✭boobar


    waiting 2010 wrote: »
    I have no control over my life I did not choose the job I am in I grabbed it out of desperation and fear of the recession used to be a confident person and these past few months have eaten away at me.I used to think I was attractive but my hair has become thin and my body out of shape,so that part of me has changed. I want to change so many things I want to be me again I want to feel free and not constantly worried about money and friendships which are no longer in existence. People don’t want to listen to what I have to say because all I say is clouded with doubt and harsh words from the circumstances I am forced to indure.I feel like I am constantly waiting for my life to happen,for my boyfriend to move to my city,for us to settle down,for me to get a better job,to travel,to learn new things to feel alive again.

    But the problem is these things cost money something which takes time to build time means being suck in this part of my life for longer.I’m just waiting is there anyone else just waiting too?


    I hear you...most people if they're honest feel like they're waiting for something. I used to be like this as well but started looking at how can I enjoy the present. My first piece of advice to you is don't get hung up on work so much, it is a means to and end. It is very nice to have a job you have an interest in and enjoy, but let's be real, it does not have to define you. My second piece of advice is find out what is you really want, you mention your boyfriend and when will he move to your city? Why not move to his city? Take a chance, it might work out. Good luck.


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