does a girl or guy have to be "attractive" for you to get with them?

greenmachine88

Either if you were only making out with someone on a night out or if you were dating this person?

bazmaiden

yes

chin_grin

greenmachine88 wrote: »

Either if you were only making out with someone on a night out or if you were dating this person?

Jayz, 'tis call'd 'shiftin'' yeh cooot hooooor yeh.

Snakeblood

greenmachine88 wrote: »

Either if you were only making out with someone on a night out or if you were dating this person?

Not so much 'Be attractive' as 'lie still'

Hank_Jones

She has to be attractive, at least to me anyway.

What's the point otherwise?

Links234

well you have to be attracted to them on some level, don't you? like, attracted to their personality, not just looks?

Scuid Mhór

yes.

who what when

Yes its important that theyre reasonably pretty but i dont see why girls focus on this.

I mean i dont like my girlfriends to be dis-honest, rude or a general all round b*tch either but no-one sees that as a bad thing!

moonshinerocks

Of course, if you aren't attracted to somebody then then you aren't going to enjoy kissing them. It doesn't mean that the person has to be good-looking in the conventional sense. If they are confident it goes a long way, nobody's going to be attracted to an ugly person who projects misery

Professey Chin

Usually yes but lets just say mistakes have been made on some occasions.......

stovelid

Absolutely not.

Big tits can swing it.

Dudess

Does a girl or guy have to be "attractive" for you to get with them?

Obviously. Even if it's just temporary, beer goggles-assisted attractiveness. You're attracted to them at some level, that is why you are with them.

Although if you mean "attractive" to everyone else, no - they don't have to be.

orourkeda

Isn't finding a partner attractive the whole point of getting with them in the first place.

moonshinerocks

stovelid wrote: »

Absolutely not.

Big tits can swing it.

But you are attracted to the big tits, so that's really a yes is it not?

Star Bingo

they have to be attractive to me, even if they may be ugly by other's standards. i am attractive to them

candy-gal1

yes obviously

stovelid

moonshinerocks wrote: »

But you are attracted to the big tits, so that's really a yes is it not?

In the event of my post not being a joke, that would certainly be so.

scientific1982

They dont have to be supermodels or anything. They just have to have something physically attractive about them. Nice eyes is a must for me and good teeth. Dont mind really mind if a girl is heavy.

kfallon

Is this thread posted every week? Or something very similar?

moonshinerocks

stovelid wrote: »

In the event of my post not being a joke, that would certainly be so.

Sorry, I'm a bit slow today

wetling

As long as she's boyfriend-free, 18-(my current age) I'm happy

Dudess

scientific1982 wrote: »

Dont mind really mind if a girl is heavy.

Expect to be absolutely crucified here for that - and to be told you're obviously fat (despite a lack of photographic evidence of your person) otherwise you'd have higher standards.

OldGoat

Giacomo Girolamo Casanova de Seingalt, or Casanova as he is commonly refered to, writes his opinion of having intimate relationships with 'less then attractive' lovers in his main book Histoire de ma vie summed up the his philophsy with regards to the customs and norms of European social life during the 18th centurary as "Any hole is a goal".
Sound advice.

moonshinerocks

OldGoat wrote: »

Giacomo Girolamo Casanove de Seingalt, or Casanova as he is commonly refered to, writes his opinion of having intimate relationships with 'less then attractive' lovers in his main book Histoire de ma vie summed up the his philophsy with regards to the customs and norms of European social life during the 18th centurary as "Any hole is a goal".
Sound advice.

I guess when it comes to men some of them would shag anyone regardless of whether they are attracted to them or not.

starlit

greenmachine88 wrote: »

Either if you were only making out with someone on a night out or if you were dating this person?

Not necessarily depends on the guy. Above average looking would be grand for me but he doesn't have to be a hunk or drop dead gorgeous like, but then again I wouldn't kiss a guy that doesn't do it for me or that looks like a frog!

SugarHigh

OldGoat wrote: »

Giacomo Girolamo Casanova de Seingalt, or Casanova as he is commonly refered to, writes his opinion of having intimate relationships with 'less then attractive' lovers in his main book Histoire de ma vie summed up the his philophsy with regards to the customs and norms of European social life during the 18th centurary as "Any hole is a goal".
Sound advice.

Sound advice from the guy who shagged his mother and daughter?

Edit: I'm talking about Casanova not OldGoat

Dudess

:eek: OldGoat did that?!

Attractive to you is attractive in and of itself. It doesn't matter whether others wouldn't consider them attractive.

Tar.Aldarion

Attractive to me yes.

SugarHigh

Dudess wrote: »

Expect to be absolutely crucified here for that - and to be told you're obviously fat (despite a lack of photographic evidence of your person) otherwise you'd have higher standards.

AckwelFoley

when i was single and drunk, id kiss anything with a fanny. Oddly enough however when i would find myself in the position that sex may be required from me, i would somehow as drunk as i may be avoid the situation.. ive jumped out of hotel from the second floor naked,ive simply ran, and i think at one time pretended i was suffering from a stroke..

Ive the scars to prove it too.. ive a 4 inch scar on my back from when a big lady wanted to move from the bj to a ride, i jumped out of the bed hit the corner of the bed side locker and tore my back.. bleeding nakid in the shower as she cleaned me down i vowed to never drink and go on the pul again.






..that lasted 5 days

NothingMan

Definitely have to find them attractive. There's enough pretty ladies out there not to waste my time with someone I'm not attracted to. And sure they all have lovely bottoms.

liah

Well.. no, not necessarily physically attractive. I've done my time on the minger circuit, but they all had lovely personalities, I swear :pac:

Dudess

Beauty/ugliness aren't always subjective - attractiveness, in the literal sense, is though. If someone found Quasimodo attractive, then, based on that alone, he was attractive, because he attracted someone to him.

SugarHigh

Dudess wrote: »

Expect to be absolutely crucified here for that - and to be told you're obviously fat (despite a lack of photographic evidence of your person) otherwise you'd have higher standards.

Aww poor Dudess never had her prophecy come true.

Princess Peach

I'm proud to say I've never been with anyone ugly! Even in my drunkest stages, I can still hold onto my standards

smokedeels

I've spent 24 years punching above my weight.

listermint

Obviously.

stovelid

snyper wrote: »

when i was single and drunk, id kiss anything with a fanny.

Even Uncle Quieten?

irishejit

A single mate of mine was having a sunday dinner with his parents and the customary question bout why he's still single came up. (He's only 31!!)

Anyway his mother asks "What is your type of woman anyway Darran?"

"Drunk" came the reply!!

Diabhal Beag

I have to be attracted to them. Doesn't mean they have to look stunning but they at least need a great personality.

Mrmoe

There would be very few women that I wouldn't have an old fumble in the hay with. With 99.995% of women there would be some level of attractiveness towards. There is a direct correlation with hornyness and availablity.

JimmyCrackCorn

Daft question, i only date people i have no interest in or hate.

Shanotheslayer

liah wrote: »

Well.. no, not necessarily physically attractive. I've done my time on the minger circuit, but they all had lovely personalities, I swear :pac:

How you doin;)


:pac:

Elvis Sinatra

the trouble is lots of people are attractive when you drink beer that you would normally steer well clear of

sometimes you score a beautiful goal
sometimes you stub the ball over the line of your nose
the point is a goal is a goal score is a score

stovelid

smokedeels wrote: »

I've spent 24 years punching above my weight.

Fair play. It's heartening to see midgets standing up to bullies.

Terry

Considering that I'm a 34 year old virgin, I'd have to say no at this point.
I'm considering going for a fat gay guy just so that I can pretend there are boobies.

Sea Sharp

They'd have to be 'good enough looking' which in fairness is probably up to 50% of the Irish female population in the 18-35 age bracket.
A plain Jane who you can get along with and have a laugh with is better than head-melting super model.

Snakeblood

Terry wrote: »

Considering that I'm a 34 year old virgin, I'd have to say no at this point.
I'm considering going for a fat gay guy just so that I can pretend there are boobies.

Paint breasts on a thin gay guys back. SORTED.

422nd

orourkeda wrote: »

Isn't finding a partner attractive the whole point of getting with them in the first place.

If so then some people are fucked to a life of misery and loneliness.

OldGoat

SugarHigh wrote: »

Sound advice from the guy who shagged his mother and daughter?
Edit: I'm talking about Casanova not OldGoat

Point of order: Eh, no he didn't. His mother abandoned him when he was very young which, some say, might be the root of his desires to be loved by women.

Dudess wrote: »

:eek: OldGoat did that?!

Me ma Rocks.

Terry

Snakeblood wrote: »

Paint breasts on a thin gay guys back. SORTED.

No no no.
The plan is doggy style, giving and not taking. It would help if he had long hair too.