Aunts husband gay?

cooltown

Hi! I am gay myself . I'm not out yet ir nothing just wondering what to do. I was at my aunts on Sunday and was using here lap top. I went onto gaire.ie and I noticed that there was a message in the inbox and was like I must have forgot to log out since the last time I was here. Just as I was about to open the message I noticed it was a different account. Then I went and clicked details and all his details were on it.
So I was kind of pis*ed of with him then because I felt he was cheating on my aunt so I clicked into the history of the computer and noticed that he was going onto loads of different gay chat sites and porn.
The thing is he has being diagnosed with cancer a few weeks ago. So should I do something or say nothing? I don't want to cause trouble in there marriage but is there anything I can do?

baby and crumble

No good ever really comes of telling a someone that their partner is cheating on them, but tbh you don't even have proof of that much. All you have is a chat site and porn.

For all you know, your uncle and aunt have an open relationship, or maybe she's fully aware and participating in this side of his life too. Or perhaps his diagnosis of cancer has made him rethink something he has pushed down throughout his whole life. You just never know.

If you want to say anything to anyone, don't let it be to your aunt. Say to your uncle that you've seen the browser history, and leave it at that.

stephen_n

Your over looking the glaringly obvious possibility that he may be bi and also just because he is on the web doesn't mean he is physically cheating. I would imagine your aunt is in enough emotional distress without you involving yourself in their relationship. I would strongly advise leaving it alone!

Annasopra

I think you should leave it alone - It might be someone else who has access to the computer