the end ?

Pdfile

Howrya folks, basically i was with the girl for nearly 2 years, Grand oul situation we had going up until about 2-4 months ago when we ran into diffucultys; seen a bit too much of each other, needed the change and to freshen things up so we parted but where still seeing each other ...

in the last week or so everything changed.

She called everything off by phone :rolleyes:

I was out in town with a mate and i bumped into her heading to the same club i was going and low and behold we ended up getting drinks dancing the night away etc and had the awkward " should we kiss " moment as well... she looked amazing that night i mean all the tricks had be used. Anyways i resisted and we seen each other twice in the last week then on Facebook we ended up talking about how good things where and are etc, then outta nowhere she starts Dragging up old stuff and well... i took the bait and started too. Before i knew it she was using the sorta weaponry you wouldn't use on your worst enemy... you know the kinda info you know would kill someone on the inside.... Yeah.

Im quite hessitent in that department, i dont Really bottle things up i just hold back as long as i can before having to come clean but i think i went a bit overboard ( feeling hard done by... because i put the hard work in so she wouldn't have to lift a finger... my bad i know ) but what i want to know is...

in my shoes what would you do if taking the above into account and the fact shes: Hot... in a suttle kinda way. I dig that. personallitys, chemistry the likes ive never felt before we both loved each other and its safe enough to say their a tiny flame left...

but the other side of the coin...: shes possesive, greedy, Always keeping most things on the hush ( im honest - nothing to hide with her really... she knows everything about me.... ) Often broke my balls over nothing ( Saying stuff like " do you love me " when where in a group of friends and i reply " yeah " and she'd go " ... oh... i dunno if i do " which as im sure you'll guess, is a right kick between your legs as everyone cringes )

At this moment in time id Still Love to work things out, put some more work in and get things on track as they should be as we where Save as houses, and i know rough patches happen but she is someone i dont wanan lose but at the same time i can see she is more then willing to fcuk off at any given moment and ride anyone under the sun to get back at me ( which... doesnt actually work tbh Been theri seen that )

their is a bit more history but on what you just Struggled to read...

what would you do....

leave her to it

Go the " lets just be friends " route

....
Reccomendations lads/ladies ?

LegacyUser

Pdfile wrote: »

Saying stuff like " do you love me " when where in a group of friends and i reply " yeah " and she'd go " ... oh... i dunno if i do " which as im sure you'll guess, is a right kick between your legs as everyone cringes

On that alone, I would've told her to get lost. She is no good for your esteem. Finish it definitively, don't let it drag out. Block all contact. If you happen to meet her, say hello but keep it to a minimum.
Then go out with your friends and get your life back.

Chicago Chick

Pdfile wrote: »

Saying stuff like " do you love me " when where in a group of friends and i reply " yeah " and she'd go " ... oh... i dunno if i do " which as im sure you'll guess, is a right kick between your legs as everyone cringes

Why would she do something like that?, it is rude and while she is embarassing you (in her opinion) she is only making herself look small and petty. Would she behave like this often?

Pdfile wrote: »

At this moment in time id Still Love to work things out, put some more work in and get things on track as they should be as we where Save as houses, and i know rough patches happen but she is someone i dont wanan lose but at the same time i can see she is more then willing to fcuk off at any given moment and ride anyone under the sun to get back at me ( which... doesnt actually work tbh Been theri seen that )

This is not a good sign and if you have been there and seen that before with this particular girl then I am sorry but I think you should let her go. You nor anybody else deserves to be treated like that. Respect is a major part of a relationship in my opinion and this sort of behaviour is beyond disrespectful to you.

fungun

sounds like a headwrecker to me, id drop

Pdfile

Thnaks guys and girls, pains going slowly but surely, and things are lookin up...... !