How long before you text her?

leedsfan88

Hey all,

I'm just back from a night in which I meet a girl who who was incredible attractive and had alot of similar interests to me and I've one very simply question and I'd like as much feedback as possible...how long should I wait before I text her?

I'd like some girls to give feedback as well please:D

challengemaster

Until the chloroform wears off...

af_thefragile

you don't. or maybe that's just what I do...

randylonghorn

challengemaster wrote: »

Until the chloroform wears off...

He never said she chloroformed him ... >_>


OP: at least leave it 'til tomorrow!

TheZohanS

Thursday evening; 9pm

leedsfan88

randylonghorn wrote: »

He never said she chloroformed him ... >_>


OP: at least leave it 'til tomorrow!

no chloroform, and tomorrow was the least

Mr. CooL ICE

Wait until your balls drop

artanevilla

Tomorrow sometime.

JONJO THE MISER

Have you not learnt anything from various american movies dealing with this very problem.

Mackman

Tomorrow evening, any time after 6.

leedsfan88

JONJO THE MISER wrote: »

Have you not learnt anything from various american movies dealing with this very problem.

I've watched too many movies at this stage so i'm confused as a result

Neadine

leedsfan88 wrote: »

Hey all,

I'm just back from a night in which I meet a girl who who was incredible attractive and had alot of similar interests to me and I've one very simply question and I'd like as much feedback as possible...how long should I wait before I text her?

I'd like some girls to give feedback as well please:D

Female feedback here; text her tomorrow. Texting her at this hour for the first time may make you appear a little like a needy stalker, but some fems think that look can also be kinda sweet!
Text her tomorrow, whatever time, you have nothing to lose. Don't wait until next week, by then she will have assumed that you were just another muppet who asked for her number with no intention of ever using it, or she'll have forgotten all about you.
Good luck, meeting someone new and going through all that stuff can be such fun, enjoy it.

Celtic3x

he mate congrads on meetign some one on a tuesday night out , i personal think any time after lunch tomorrow if she works, as wont be able txt you back anyway. if a student same prob have classes. its not when you txt her its what ya do an how ya keep the conversation going for the next few days to keep her interested is the thing you need to think about.

Sharpshooter

leedsfan88 wrote: »

Hey all,

I'm just back from a night in which I meet a girl who who was incredible attractive and had alot of similar interests to me and I've one very simply question and I'd like as much feedback as possible...how long should I wait before I text her?

I'd like some girls to give feedback as well please:D

Well you posted this at 2.51 so give her at least 7 hours and then text her a * Good Morning * and Thank You for last night I really enjoyed your company.:):pac:

Then..wait for her to reply.:)

She will.:pac:

* Token Female Reply *

Royal Irish

Grow some balls and text friday evening and ask her whats she doing over the weekend and would she like to go see a movie or something. The worst that can happen is she says "no".

leedsfan88

Sharpshooter wrote: »

Well you posted this at 2.51 so give her at least 7 hours and then text her a * Good Morning * and Thank You for last night I really enjoyed your company.:):pac:

Then..wait for her to reply.:)

She will.:pac:

* Token Female Reply *

"She will:pac:"... What????

Neadine

Royal Irish wrote: »

Grow some balls and text friday evening and ask her whats she doing over the weekend and would she like to go see a movie or something. The worst that can happen is she says "no".

Why wait till Friday evening when she will already have plans made for the weekend???

leedsfan88

Royal Irish wrote: »

Grow some balls and text friday evening and ask her whats she doing over the weekend and would she like to go see a movie or something. The worst that can happen is she says "no".

I'm trying to minimalism her saying no

OutlawPete

leedsfan88 wrote: »

I've watched too many movies at this stage so i'm confused as a result

Yeah, there's a great scene in the film Swingers on it, but can't find it.

Here's a poor subsittute:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K0tgRbhsLIc

Pretty_Pistol

Feedback? Not much to it. Just text her tommorrow afternoon or evening and ask if she wants to go out this weekend. Don't do it in the morning. That Good Morning text sounds a little creepy, sorry Sharpeshooter.

Sharpshooter

leedsfan88 wrote: »

"She will:pac:"... What????

Reply, guaranteed.:pac:


Don't lose hope for the reply you were looking for..

scientific1982

Give it a a few days, 2 or 3.

Neadine

scientific1982 wrote: »

Give it a a few days, 2 or 3.

Why???
I really don't get the game playing thing.
You meet someone, you like them, get their number, why then wait until the weekend to bother to contact them, expecting them to be sitting at home waiting for your call/text. Because obviously she didn't have a life before tonight and it's highly unlikely that she may in fact have a social life, friends, etc., etc.

Sharpshooter

Sharpshooter wrote: »

Well you posted this at 2.51 so give her at least 7 hours and then text her a * Good Morning * and Thank You for last night I really enjoyed your company.:):pac:

Then..wait for her to reply.:)

She will.:pac:

* Token Female Reply *

Pretty_Pistol wrote: »

That Good Morning text sounds a little creepy, sorry Sharpeshooter.

Why though?

Give her enough time to have a good nights sleep and then text her saying he enjoyed her company ect.

Nothing wrong with a text like that imo.

Neadine

Sharpshooter wrote: »

Why though?

Give her enough time to have a good nights sleep and then text her saying he enjoyed her company ect.

Nothing wrong with a text like that imo.

I have been on the receiving end of the following morning text, and didn't find it creepy.
Maybe it's the person who is sending the text that makes it creepy rather than the text itself?!?!

Super-Rush

Whatever you do don't text her at 6:30 in the morning asking her if she likes cake.






I said cake.

Neadine

super-rush wrote: »

Whatever you do don't text her at 6:30 in the morning asking her if she likes cake.






I said cake.

It sounds like this advice may be coming from personal experience.
Please, share....

Royal Irish

Neadine wrote: »

Why wait till Friday evening when she will already have plans made for the weekend???

Your right, I forgot what day it is today. Change of plan Leedsfan, text her Thursday evening. Ask her to go see a movie over the weekend. I know its stereotypical but its the easiest thing for her to say yes too.

Pdfile

leedsfan88 wrote: »

Hey all,

I'm just back from a night in which I meet a girl who who was incredible attractive and had alot of similar interests to me and I've one very simply question and I'd like as much feedback as possible...how long should I wait before I text her?

I'd like some girls to give feedback as well please:D

dont All women are ***** imho... well the one i broke up with completely today is !

give it a few days... 2-3 then get her eatin outha yer hand !

strobe

Royal Irish wrote: »

Your right, I forgot what day it is today. Change of plan Leedsfan, text her Thursday evening. Ask her to go see a movie over the weekend. I know its stereotypical but its the easiest thing for her to say yes too.

Please don't ask her to go see a movie OP, just don't, anything else you can possibly think of besides is ok.

Super-Rush

Neadine wrote: »

It sounds like this advice may be coming from personal experience.
Please, share....

To make it worse she replied straight away and laughed at me.

Neadine

super-rush wrote: »

To make it worse she replied straight away and laughed at me.

Surely the laughing was a good thing????
Where did things go after 6:30 am cake texts??? Is it a happily ever after story or more along the lines of one that involved restraining orders??

The Highwayman

leedsfan88 wrote: »

Hey all,

I'm just back from a night in which I meet a girl who who was incredible attractive and had alot of similar interests to me and I've one very simply question and I'd like as much feedback as possible...how long should I wait before I text her?

I'd like some girls to give feedback as well please:D

3 day rule.

Friday evening

Super-Rush

Neadine wrote: »

Surely the laughing was a good thing????
Where did things go after 6:30 am cake texts??? Is it a happily ever after story or more along the lines of one that involved restraining orders??

There was a comment about sausages and then someone mentioned pie.

Pretty_Pistol

Sharpshooter wrote: »

Why though?

Give her enough time to have a good nights sleep and then text her saying he enjoyed her company ect.

Nothing wrong with a text like that imo.

I don't know maybe it comes across as being a little overeager. Also waiting till later in the day means he's thought about her after a day but hasn't waited around for the 3 day BS.

Neadine

super-rush wrote: »

There was a comment about sausages and then someone mentioned pie.

Sounds like the meeting of minds, and the start of a long lasting, and beautiful relationship!!

fonecrusher1

Text her this right now; Just wondering how many kids we'll have after we get married???:mad:


She'll love it. Go on.

Neadine

Just out of curiosity, all of you guys who are saying not till Friday, 3 day rule, or anything else remotely similar. How many of you are currently single???!!! (Think about it)

The Highwayman

Neadine wrote: »

Just out of curiosity, all of you guys who are saying not till Friday, 3 day rule, or anything else remotely similar. How many of you are currently single???!!! (Think about it)

I'm in bed beside sleeping girlfriend

.....no she's awake now ..... i'm in trouble........


.... night all

OutlawPete

Just to add a little feedback to how a girl approached this issue.

Few months back I gave my number to a girl at the end of a night and she texted at 10pm the following night.

I think if I had been texted the next morning I would have felt a bit stalked tbh.

Next night seems fine, I would text her within 24 hours.

Anything more is just playing needless games really.

Then, maybe some girls like that.

Just do what feels right as that's who you are and you want her to like the guy you are, not the one you are pretending to be.

Neadine

OutlawPete wrote: »

Just to add a little feedback to how a girl approached this issue.

Few months back I gave my number to a girl at the end of a night and she texted at 10pm the following night.

I think if I had been texted the next morning I would have felt a bit stalked tbh.

Next night seems fine, I would text her within 24 hours.

Anything more is just playing needless games really.

Then, maybe some girls like that.

Just do what feels right as that's who you are and you want her to like the guy you are, not the one you are pretending to be.

I agree completely, I don't get the whole mind game thing, it's bloody hard work and not a true representation of who people actually are.

Jesus Wept

Do not take 'dating' advice from females.

Neadine

The-Rigger wrote: »

Do not take 'dating' advice from females.

Excuse me????
What???

strobe

Neadine wrote: »

Excuse me????
What???

It's pretty good advice actually. Men shouldn't really take advice from girls on how to pull girls and girls should never take advice from fellas on how to pull fellas.

OutlawPete

strobe wrote: »

.. girls should never take advice from fellas on how to pull fellas.

Oh matron!

Neadine

strobe wrote: »

It's pretty good advice actually. Men should never take advice from girls on how to pull girls and girls should never take advice from fellas on how to pull fellas.

Correct me if I'm wrong on this, but is this thread not about when to text someone??? The OP has had a night, met someone, numbers have been exchanged, so chances are it's been a case of boy meets girl, boy likes girl, girl likes boy.
The thread isn't about 'pulling'.

Mackman

strobe wrote: »

It's pretty good advice actually. Men shouldn't really take advice from girls on how to pull girls and girls should never take advice from fellas on how to pull fellas.

Thats rediculous, why would anyone not say yes to insider info?

Neadine

Mackman wrote: »

Thats rediculous, why would anyone not say yes to insider info?

I'm with you on that one Mackman.

strobe

Mackman wrote: »

Thats rediculous, why would anyone not say yes to insider info?

How many straight girls will a straight girl have dated/pulled/initiated a romantic relationship with, whatever you want to call it in their life? I'm not saying don't take any advice from girls in relation to pulling girls or visa versa. Just take any advice they give with a pinch of salt. They have no practical experience in the field.

Mackman

strobe wrote: »

How many straight girls will a straight girl have dated/pulled/initiated a romantic relationship with, whatever you want to call it in their life? I'm not saying don't take any advice from girls in relation to pulling girls or visa versa. Just take any advice they give with a pinch of salt. They have no practical experience in the field.

But they ARE what you are trying to "pull" (hate that phrase). Who better to give you advise?
Its like taking soccer pointers from a guy in the stand instead of asking a player on the field

(i dont know why i picked soccer, first thing to come to mind)

Neadine

strobe wrote: »

How many straight girls will a straight girl have dated/pulled/initiated a romantic relationship with, whatever you want to call it in their life? I'm not saying don't take any advice from girls in relation to pulling girls or visa versa. Just take any advice they give with a pinch of salt. They have no practical experience in the field.

I think you have slightly warped logic here and are not looking at the big picture.
The OP was asking for some feedback/advise about his personal situation, where tonight he went out and met a girl, who I think it's fair to say he liked, and would like to see again, and by all accords it was a two way thing, because the afore mentioned girl, at some point though the course of the evening gave the OP her phone number.
Now, the OP's request was for advice/suggestions as to when he should text her. And specifically asked for advice from girls.
I can only assume that his reason for this was because of his awareness that most females have in fact been in this situation and he wanted to make sure that he didn't text too soon, or wait too long. So, surely a girl is far more able to tell him what she thinks may be too soon, or too long to wait to text.

To be honest, strobe, what you said, well, that's kinda the most ridiculous thing I've heard in a long time.