what to do?

LegacyUser

So I met this girl a couple of months ago on a night out. We got talking (she instigated conversation) and it turned out she was visiting for the weekend and staying with mates, who happened to be there earlier and conveniently who had left shortly after I arrived, leaving her on her own with me. So she had lost her fone and had no way to contact them at the end of the night and didn't know how to get to their place.
She asked could she stay at mine, I half heartedly suggested she could sleep in my bed, she wasn't offended but said she would be glad of a sofa. We (us + housemate) stayed up chatting most of the night and as much as I wanted something to happen everything remained above board. The opportunity was there earlier but we both stopped in our tracks, which was strange and kind of intense. I think maybe we knew we both had drunk a bit and didn't want to f/up. (at least thats how I felt)

The next day I blearily eyed walked her to a meeting point, so she could meet her mates. I wrote down my number and asked her to contact me when her fone reappeared and that was that. well almost, I missed some texts from her the following night asking to meet up (i'm guessing she was drunk)

So a few weeks later I still hadn't heard anything and I did some investigative work, discovered her full name and found her on fb and she added me. We've chatted a couple of times but I always felt like I was intruding on her space and I've been trying not to be invasive.
Then out of the blue she text me, with her new fone happy days. Fuelled with alcohol I told her I missed her and while she got a buzz off it, I just can't read her. She's always friendly with me but I don't know if thats just how she is. We live some distance apart so don't have the opportunity to get to know each other in person which is very frustrating and honestly I don't even know if she wants to.

On the other hand, when she added me her relationship status went from being in one..to single. Just in case you hadn't noticed, I'm really bad at picking up signals.
please tell me, should I be making an effort here.

LegacyUser

i can only tell you what i would do, but to me it looks like she is interested,,so I would go for it. if she doesn't reciprocate then just move on, as you have said she lives a good bit away you wont even see her,,not that it should matter

Zen65

just dont know wrote: »

please tell me, should I be making an effort here.

Yes, but if you want to know what's going on try making an effort without the alcohol!

Or at any rate.... only a little.



Z

Miss Fluff

Ash her out!