Trying to push me away?

LegacyUser

Hey guys,

I recently was on holiday and met up with a girl whom Ive been writing to for a few months. She is very atractive, both physically and personality wise.
So we met up and went out that night. We ended up kissing, and for the rest of the night we couldnt keep our hands off of eachother. She mentioned how she liked me for quite a while, and was so worried that I wouldnt like her too. She was also worried that I would feel different the next day.
The next day we meet up, and again we cant keep our hands off eachother. She said we should remain as friends, and just see how we get along in the times we do meet, which I agree with.
My problem is, even though I am not long home, things are begging to change from what they used to be. Normally she would read my messages every day and reply the same day. But now, She doenst even read two day old messages (there are read or unread indicators on this site I use). I can see she logged on also, but logged off without reading.
She told me that she is a worrier, and she is saying that she is not right for me, when we were together, but that she likes me. She also told me that she was purposely cold towards me at times before.
So shall I take this period of silence as an effort to push me away? Part of me is worrying that she was playing games. I dont want to lose the way we were before we met.

I know long distance is hard, and that on the majority doesnt work, so can I ommit that from the problem.
Thanks for any advice

WesternNight

She seems to be giving you pretty clear signals that she's not interested, I'm afraid. Saying that she's not right for you, that you should be friends...she wouldn't be saying that if she was genuinely interested.

I'd advise forgetting about her and moving on.

tenchi-fan

Give up. Move on. It's over.

Your interest obviously prefers someone who plays hard to get and you seem incapable of it. Some girls just like being ignored, mistreated and abused. "Treat em mean keep em keen"

Your best bet is to find someone who appreciates attention. Either than or play it cooler in future.

LegacyUser

Hey,
Thanks for the feedback guys.
I think you've confirmed my worries. I understand what ye mean by being meaner and less interested, its just i dont want to have to write scripts out, maybe its best if i just cut contact altogether?

WesternNight

pushapushpop wrote: »

maybe its best if i just cut contact altogether?

It probably is, yes.

Good luck!