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  • 10-09-2010 5:24pm
    #1
    mr lee
    Closed Accounts Posts: 332 ✭✭


    i split up with my girl over 2 years ago and there was this local girl that split up with her man around d same time,she really liked me and i really liked her but we never got together mainly because of me,i was fried,it just wasnt good timing for me,i was a recluse for d last year and a half suffering from depression but now im sorted and i want to see this girl,i know shes not seeing anyone,problem is she wont smile at me and say hello like before,ive seen her lookin at me in the pub and she ll say hello back to me,is she like this cos she thinks i dont want her and she still likes me,what do i do


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Why don't you ask her out for a coffee (no alcohol date so she knows it's not the drink talking!) and try to explain what you've just written down? You weren't ready for a relationship back then because you weren't over your last one, you needed to sort your head out, and if you'd got with her back then you probably would have both ended up hurt.

    I'd respect a bloke (and be flattered) if he was honest with me. After that, it's up to her whether she decides to say yes - but if you don't ask, you'll never know...


  • #3
    Taltos
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,830 ✭✭✭✭Taltos


    Sometimes you just have to take a risk and put yourself out there.
    What's the worst that can happen? She says no and you can start to move on???
    Or the best - she says yes and then you can both see where you want to take it.

    :)


  • #4
    mr lee
    Closed Accounts Posts: 332 ✭✭mr lee


    thank you both for your helpful replies,i can only give it a go and see what happens


  • #5
    darad
    Closed Accounts Posts: 109 ✭✭darad


    Ask her out, if shes interested she will say yes. Im not sure how much you spoke about having a relationship before if you did at all but you dont really owe her much of an explaination if you didnt, just tell you youve liked her a long time but werent ready to get into anything. Maybe dont say that on the first date though, keep it light and have fun.


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