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Is There Anywhere In Dublin People Meet Up And Have NSA Sex?

  • 02-09-2010 8:31pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I'm a 22 year old female from Dublin (athletic,blond,attractive) and I'm looking for one amazing night with a stranger - call me odd - but their my fantasies. I've looked everywhere online; dating sites etc and none of them are legitimate - all scams.

    I don't want to go out and find someone because I don't want my friends to know etc..I want to keep things completely discreet. I've heard of places in town that do these kind of swinging things which sound interesting and lads, before you do it, I'm not interested in you...I'm just looking for some information.

    Thank you. :)


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  • #2
    meathman2010
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1 ✭meathman2010


    you said you were blond, athletic, and 22... come on...lots of guys out there looking for just that! btw i'm 32 and looking for a blond, athletic 22 year old... <snip>


  • #3
    whatsamsn
    Closed Accounts Posts: 911 ✭✭✭whatsamsn


    haha meathman... talk about dropping that in there or what. lol. even after she said she wasnt interested in a user trying it on. lol.

    But op its really the internet for you I guess. I know you tried it. But as you point out if you dont want friends to know - then that outs the pub idea out. Any girl can get a one night stand.
    I'd go so far as to say if a girl wanted sex with any guy. She could join a social network site and within an hour she'd have someone going "yeah i'd be up for that can i come over?" ...


    Dare i say i dont even know if this thread is legit. Or that you must be VERY picky.
    Half of guys on dating websites and even social networking sites are only looking for sex. You claim you tried them. Surely you talked to people just looking for that. You would of had to come across someone that you were attracted to.


  • #4
    Ickle Magoo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 17,485 ✭✭✭✭Ickle Magoo


    Be aware that off-topic and unhelpful posting can earn you a ban from this forum.
    Please take the time to read the forum rules in the charter and abide by them.

    Many thanks.
    Ickle


  • #5
    Mr. Loverman
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,001 ✭✭✭Mr. Loverman


    You say it's your fantasy... I think you should keep it as that... a fantasy.

    Reality won't be as good. :)


  • #6
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Hi Op,

    My friend just got engaged to a guy she met on Facebook last year, is facebook any use for meeting people.

    LIke if you went out to a club would you not just pick someone up that way and sus them out, give them your number and organize a date without your friends knowing , im just trying to think of ways you can size the person up before you have to meet them.

    I know a friend of mine answered an add in the newspaper and it was from a high class lawyer who loved being spanked and tied up, he went and spent a few hours with her, but he was a bloke answering it, maybe you just need a site or add that is safe.

    It will be interesting to know that if you satisfy your fantasy will it be a case of been there done that and not interested again or will you have a further fantasy !


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  • #7
    Gone Fishin
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 160 ✭✭Gone Fishin


    Be very, very careful if you do decide to follow through on this. Make sure you let someone know where you are going. Rarely does a one night stand with a stranger live up to intimate sex with someone you know but there have been exceptions. There are friend finder dating sites which are quite good at finding this type of relationship, one in particular which vets people and allows you somewhat to get to know them through chat or whatever beforehand but I suspect its the stranger part that might do it for you. Avoid pubs or night clubs, its just going end up as drunken sex which is normally not great. Sometimes the fantasy is far better than the reality! Be prepared for that too. Good luck. Stay safe.


  • #8
    Miss Fluff
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,673 ✭✭✭Miss Fluff


    ConfusedGurl88 wrote: »
    I don't want to go out and find someone because I don't want my friends to know etc..I want to keep things completely discreet.

    I get that you wish to be discreet but if you are proposing to meet up with a complete stranger to spend a night with them then it is imperative that you tell someone who you are meeting and where. In fact if this has not crossed your mind then I would question your understanding of the dangers such a liaison would involve. Sure, plenty people go to clubs/bars and end up having one-night-stands but for your own safety it is important that a good friend knows what you are doing and has the phone number/name etc of your "date"...


  • #9
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    i have a friend who uses a few sites for this, one local one he uses is iliveindublin.com
    he has met a good few girls off that.


  • #10
    The Recliner
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,630 ✭✭✭The Recliner


    The OP hasn't been back for a week so hopefully she got some, if not the suggestions here should help


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