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Am I over reacting???

  • 31-08-2010 9:02am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    This may seem silly to many of you, and I am sure I will be told that I am been silly. I probably am but it is really worrying me.
    Long story short, been with my oh for nearly a year, all is great madly in love etc.
    Thing is a few weeks ago we had a major fight, it nearly ended it all, was all my fault but we moved on, forgot about it and drew a line under it.
    Now its a long distance thing. But we email every day in work! talk every evening on the phone and are basically in constant contact....
    Last friday she stopped replying to emails, no reason but i didn't think anything of it, (prob called to a meeting) ...talked later all fine, she was out of the office all day...but i got a seperate unrelated email (generic) to my private account the same day an hour after the lack of reply from her work email...
    Not a huge deal, couldn't see eachother this weekend but talked on the phone.
    Yesterday, usual banter on the email at work, tried to ring last night but rang out, messaged, no reply.....this may seem like nothing but try to understand that in our dynamic this has not happened before.
    So this morning i texted again, just asking was she ok! this was a while ago and still no response..
    Im starting to get freaked out as this is very unlike her,even if she lost her phone I would expect a text from a friends or at least an email this morning....
    Am i been irrational here? Im sure (hope) that there is a simple explanation, and i don't want to email now having already texted as im sure that would seem a bit i don't know stalkerish but having been to gether for this amount of time i don't think that is really an issue!
    HELP!


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  • #2
    sbsquarepants
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,812 ✭✭✭✭sbsquarepants


    Calm down man, maybe she's busy! Maybe she just wants a bit of space? Constant "is everything ok?" texts would do anyones head in. Give it a while and if you still think something is wrong SAY it to her, don't text it!


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Yeah, take it easy OP. Your gf could have easily been busy in a work meeting yesterday, maybe their system was giving trouble, or she had a colleague/boss standing near her going through something? As for lastnight not answering, again, a million reasons. Maybe she was in the shower? Left her phone charging in the kitchen by accident after bed, left the phone at home this morning.. honestly, a million things.

    My wife regularly leaves her phone at home in her rush out the door, granted she usually sends me an email to let me know but it happens all the time. Similarly, if she's out for a walk or putting out washing, she doesn't have the phone on her. I'm sure you'll find out later that everything's grand, but don't go asking her a million questions about why she didn't answer, it'll feel to her like you're nagging.


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