Chick on Facebook Messaging Me

Fukuyama

Right so, I check my Facebook this morning and a girl who live near enough to me adds me as a friend. Never really talked to her before and didnt even know her name. I accepted the request and she sent me a message.

She said that see seen my profile on a friends page and added me because she 'liked my profile pic' and thought I was cute.

Anyway we got talking a bit about college, summer blah blah... And I think she like... wants a friggen relationship.

The thing is; shes good looking (well, a 6.5 to a 7 out of ten at least), smart etc... Why is she looking for people on Facebook. PLUS... we've only been talking for like a few messages (I've been leaving time gaps between mine coz I've been in work and had to run a few errands).

Any advice? She is nice but her being so forward is kinda spooking me..

Cheers,
Dean.

Otis Driftwood

Moved from tGC.

coolcat63

Lordy, a woman who takes the initiative, whatever next?! What are you so spooked by? If she fancies you - from afar - and you like her what's the problem?

Oh, and what is a 'friggen' relationship?!

Fukuyama

Just kinda think its weird that we've talked for like 5 messages and she's hinting to meet up some time... asking if im in work tomorrow etc...A friggen relationship is a relationship which may not certainly be welcome by the receiving party...yet.

gandalf

What have you got to lose?

Sometimes you have to take a chance on things in life man, meet up you may find that you don't have the same rapport that you had on-line. Then again she could turn out to be the girl of your dreams.

Fukuyama

gandalf wrote: »

What have you got to lose?

Sometimes you have to take a chance on things in life man, meet up you may find that you don't have the same rapport that you had on-line. Then again she could turn out to be the girl of your dreams.

Good point. You only get one life.

To be honest it was just the speed of it that got me. Anyway... she's gone off line but she send me her number and told me to give her a text some time. Might just do it

shellyboo

Dean0088 wrote: »

Good point. You only get one life.

To be honest it was just the speed of it that got me. Anyway... she's gone off line but she send me her number and told me to give her a text some time. Might just do it

Lads are impossible to please, complain when they have to do all the work AND complain when we do all the work... :P

OP, you should be in your element. A hot woman wants to meet up and go out with you... this is a good thing! You've nothing to lose, go for it.

Mackman

Dean0088 wrote: »

Good point. You only get one life.

To be honest it was just the speed of it that got me. Anyway... she's gone off line but she send me her number and told me to give her a text some time. Might just do it

A woman that is good looking, smart and confident wants to go on a date with you.

i dont see the problem

Do you want her to talk about ****e for 2 weeks and play mind games before making a move?
Or does it make you feel less of a man because she made the first move?

Chaotic_Forces

I see the problem. OP, welcome to the digital age. You have a nice lady that you know in person (yes seeing her 5 times is knowing her enough that she ask you out), so she looked you up and asked you. I'll admit, ten years ago I'd scream "STALKER" but come on, common sense = "what's your number?". Worse thing that happens is "date = bad date".

ldxo15wus6fpgm

I can't see these answers being posted if it was a fella going after a girl on facebook :rolleyes:
Just give her a text and see what she's like? You might end up getting on with her...

petes

One date does not equal marriage, kids, mortgage etc.

Lucky duck.

shhhhh

It's only a date dude - how old are you?

LegacyUser

Delilah Mammoth Watchdog wrote: »

I can't see these answers being posted if it was a fella going after a girl on facebook :rolleyes:

And I can't see a girl starting a thread like this if a guy asked her out :rolleyes: