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  • 19-08-2010 10:52am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi,

    Met a girl at a party a month ago. Kissed a few times. Went out with her a week later to club with mutual friends and spent the most of the night all over each other. We text each other almost non-stop every single day since.

    We met up for a day since but it was knind of awkward as we are both shy without drink (no kiss that day).

    She lives nearby and I've been invited up to her place twice since - again shyness (i think) stopped anything from happening but we talked like mad no silly silences etc..

    I know I am running out of opportunities to "make the move" and stop it falling into friend zone. We are going out tomorrow night clubbing as a group and I know really it could be my last chance...

    I am just wondering if you think she likes me "that way" or is more interested in me as a friend and if you think she likes "me that way" - any tips for sealing the deal tomorrow?

    She's 21 - I am 25. Yes, I should know better at this stage but I am afraid I don't. :-(

    Thanks RI.


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Just said I would bump this as tonight is not far off..


  • #3
    Ickle Magoo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 17,485 ✭✭✭✭Ickle Magoo


    I don't think anyone can tell you if she's interested in you in that way other than herself.

    Why not ask her out for a drink or a meal prior to going out - tell her it's a date so she knows you are interested? I'd say she's feeling much the same as you are and nervous of initiating anything in case you aren't interested in that way - it's just going to be a case of one of you taking the chance.

    Best of luck!


  • #4
    sibh1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 73 ✭✭sibh1


    If she is texting you non stop and inviting you to her house then she is interested!! But.. because you declined you have a little bit of making up to do.

    Why not text her and tell her you're really looking forward to seeing her tonight?

    Then go out... relax, have a few drinks and make your move to show her that you are interested.

    THEN you can ask her out on a date, go for dinner.. at least that way you can have a few drinks and it will make it easier for the two of you to connect. Relax and enjoy it!


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