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I need sex advice

  • 18-08-2010 7:09pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Well this is my issue, I am 22 and I am still a virgin and I am really, really tired of waitng for the ''right person''.. I just can't wait to have sex now, everyone around me seems to be having it and even when I watch the telly and a sex scene comes up I really get 'excited and horny' and then I get frustrated.... Is there anyway of losing my virginity without having to be in a relationship cause I really am losing my patience now.. I have been to numerous parties trying to find a partner but I am seriously tired of looking now.. I am even at the stage where I am jelious of everyone I know who are dating..


    Anyone got advice for me please?


Comments

  • #2
    tolosenc
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,889 ✭✭✭tolosenc


    Relax. It's not actually a big deal. You're building it up a lot there, and you'll only be disappointed.

    Stuff'll happen when it'll happen, whether you like it or not.


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    I was a virgin until I was 26. 22 is not a big deal. Although I remember thinking along the same lines when I was your age, I just want to get rid of it.... I'm so, so, sooooo glad I waited till I found someone I actually cared about. It's worth waiting to have a good memory.


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    I'm not trying to tell you what to do but I'm 21 and I lost my virginity about a year ago on a one night stand and I'm really glad I did.

    I was like you, I had always thought I'd wait for it to be special but I got really frustrated (sexually and otherwise) and was sick of people treating me like I knew nothing because I was a virgin. I'm really glad I did it because I still have yet to have any sort of relationship but I'm not so worried about what someone will think of me now. I get that sex can be really special but I don't think it necessarily has to be.

    Do what feels right for you, nobody else can tell you whether you'll regret it or not.


  • #5
    kmick
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,375 ✭✭✭kmick


    Have you tried any of the dating sites?


  • #6
    BKtje
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,081 ✭✭✭BKtje


    I lost it when i was 23, to some girl i knew a bit. We were both hammered and to be honest i was so drunk i fell asleep mid way! (great first time huh ;) ).

    I don't care that I lost it like that, nor do I care that I lost it at all afterwards.

    Basically what i'm saying is that if you want to wait for someone special then do, if not then find someone you is also looking for a bit of fun one night.

    Anyway afterwards you probably won't feel much different or that it was worth all the build up (that said I didnt fully enjoy it till I was with my current girlfriend).


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