People who try to inject themselves into your life?

caseyann

Ever had a neighbor who talks to you and asks you loads of questions about your life,you thinking polite conversation.Tell them little bits.And then before you know although you have only spoke to them on two occasions.Think they know you and start advising you on your life.
How do you deal with them?
I am driven demented with this neighbor who constantly although is not a friend of mine tries to tell me what i should do in certain circumstances.Or acts like their opinion matters :mad:

kfallon

I usually ignore my neighbours, they get nothing but a 'hello' when I pass. If they say anything else they may get a nod or a smile. I can't be doing with nosey barstewards tbh!

easyeason3

A swift kick to the face should sort out your problem with your neighbour.

Or you could start ignoring them.

By the way, what's going on in your life that your neighbour has to give advice?

gogo

I have a neighbout like this, I tell her loads of lies, loads, I currently own three sites, we can't decide which to build on, Just waiting on planning to come through. When we went to tramore, told her we were going abroad.

My life so much better then her's in make believe land, she cant offer me any advise on anything.

El Guapo!

Keep digging holes in your back garden and then ask if they have a lend of a bag of lime....

ScumLord

caseyann wrote: »

Ever had a neighbor who talks to you and asks you loads of questions about your life,you thinking polite conversation.Tell them little bits.And then before you know although you have only spoke to them on two occasions.Think they know you and start advising you on your life.
How do you deal with them?
I am driven demented with this neighbor who constantly although is not a friend of mine tries to tell me what i should do in certain circumstances.Or acts like their opinion matters :mad:

Wind them up, it's great fun.

we'llallhavetea_old

stop telling them "little bits" and they won't be able to advise you.

cson

I don't hang around smack addicts tbh.

caseyann

easyeason3 wrote: »

A swift kick to the face should sort out your problem with your neighbour.

Or you could start ignoring them.

By the way, what's going on in your life that your neighbour has to give advise?

LOL I dont want to go to prison or be hated on the road.I have seen lately the nosey neighbor face rear its ugly head,neighbors gossiping about other neighbors also.When you have kids who play together its hard to ignore them all time.



well you see there is this problem,oh you nearly got me to spill there :mad::D

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caseyann wrote: »

Ever had a neighbor who talks to you and asks you loads of questions about your life,you thinking polite conversation.Tell them little bits.And then before you know although you have only spoke to them on two occasions.Think they know you and start advising you on your life.
How do you deal with them?
I am driven demented with this neighbor who constantly although is not a friend of mine tries to tell me what i should do in certain circumstances.Or acts like their opinion matters :mad:

Go Walter Mitty on them - invent a colourful life filled with instances of debauchery like the time you got stuck on the gear lever of your car in the Ikea car park after getting inexplicably turned on by the shape of the meatballs.

Or the time you went on that jamboree and decided to help the venture scouts get the "tastes like chicken" badge.

It will either scare them off or do wonders for your standing amongst peers.

easyeason3

caseyann wrote: »

LOL I dont want to go to prison or be hated on the road.I have seen lately the nosey neighbor face rear its ugly head,neighbors gossiping about other neighbors also.When you have kids who play together its hard to ignore them all time.



well you see there is this problem,oh you nearly got me to spill there :mad::D

Go on, you know you want to.

chin_grin

Cap + earphones. Sorted! Has gotten me out of some awkward "do I really need to stop for a chat?" situations.

kfallon

caseyann wrote: »

well you see there is this problem,oh you nearly got me to spill there :mad::D

Spill, spill, spill........

caseyann

we'llallhavetea wrote: »

stop telling them "little bits" and they won't be able to advise you.

I didn't see it coming,it was very sneaky how she did it.I havent told her anything i even assumed would be anything to talk about.But she made it that way.Everytime i leave the road now i am avoiding looking at her house.:D

Why do strangers want to know everything

we'llallhavetea_old

caseyann wrote: »

I didn't see it coming,it was very sneaky how she did it.I havent told her anything i even assumed would be anything to talk about.But she made it that way.Everytime i leave the road now i am avoiding looking at her house.:D

Why do strangers want to know everything

well tbh i'd tell her to fcuk off. but i'm a psycho like that

caseyann

easyeason3 wrote: »

Go on, you know you want to.

Well there is this girl who i fancy and she keeps coming over i am married and i just cant stop thinking about her.Should i go for it or stay faithful or invite OH




















Nah thats not it.Sorry


How do i make her stop been nosey without been insulting?

caseyann

Fitzcaraldo wrote: »

Go Walter Mitty on them - invent a colourful life filled with instances of debauchery like the time you got stuck on the gear lever of your car in the Ikea car park after getting inexplicably turned on by the shape of the meatballs.

Or the time you went on that jamboree and decided to help the venture scouts get the "tastes like chicken" badge.

It will either scare them off or do wonders for your standing amongst peers.

LMAO good plan

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caseyann wrote: »

i am married ...

Can the last male out please turn off the lights after them - thanks.

caseyann

we'llallhavetea wrote: »

well tbh i'd tell her to fcuk off. but i'm a psycho like that

I have wanted to but she is isnt mean.I find it very hard to be mean to people who are doing it in what seems to be nicest way,but you know its out of pure busy bodiness.

kfallon

Actually are we more nosey than the neighbour now???

caseyann

kfallon wrote: »

Actually are we more nosey than the neighbour now???

Its ok i can turn yous off

kfallon

caseyann wrote: »

Its ok i can turn yous off

Question is....can you turn us on??? :eek::D

caseyann

Oh my god she is at the front door :eek: I am hiding

kfallon

Just shout out 'Fook off you nosey cnut!'....usually works!

kfallon

She obviously let her in, oh dear!

Hardly a good start to trying to ignore her *shakes head*

Hopefully this thread has been left open on her pc and the neighbour will read it

orourkeda

caseyann wrote: »

Ever had a neighbor who talks to you and asks you loads of questions about your life,you thinking polite conversation.Tell them little bits.And then before you know although you have only spoke to them on two occasions.Think they know you and start advising you on your life.
How do you deal with them?
I am driven demented with this neighbor who constantly although is not a friend of mine tries to tell me what i should do in certain circumstances.Or acts like their opinion matters :mad:

Tell them to fack off

Scuid Mhór

caseyann wrote: »

Ever had a neighbor who talks to you and asks you loads of questions about your life,you thinking polite conversation.Tell them little bits.And then before you know although you have only spoke to them on two occasions.Think they know you and start advising you on your life.
How do you deal with them?
I am driven demented with this neighbor who constantly although is not a friend of mine tries to tell me what i should do in certain circumstances.Or acts like their opinion matters :mad:

it's called being friendly

cursai

Oh community spirit!!! Its not dead in Ireland yet.:(

orourkeda

caseyann wrote: »

Well there is this girl who i fancy and she keeps coming over i am married and i just cant stop thinking about her.Should i go for it or stay faithful or invite OH




















Nah thats not it.Sorry


How do i make her stop been nosey without been insulting?

Threesome

conorhal

kfallon wrote: »

I usually ignore my neighbours, they get nothing but a 'hello' when I pass. If they say anything else they may get a nod or a smile. I can't be doing with nosey barstewards tbh!

I'm Starting a thread on odd-ball neighbors that that live in a terraced house but seem to imagine that they are lords of a country estate....



Well at least you stretch to a hello! When I'd say 'good morning' or 'Hi' when meeting my last neighbors on the stairs or coming out their door, they would look at you as if you had two heads or something. Eerie pod people.....

kfallon

The hello is to be polite, I dpon't wish to know their business and they sure as hell won't be knowing mine!

I live in an apartment block btw

caseyann

kfallon wrote: »

She obviously let her in, oh dear!

Hardly a good start to trying to ignore her *shakes head*

Hopefully this thread has been left open on her pc and the neighbour will read it

No i didnt answer just hid

orourkeda wrote: »

Tell them to fack off

I am to polite to curse

Giant Squid wrote: »

it's called being friendly

It is called unwanted nose sticking in and not needed advise and been pushy.
I am all for been neighborly,but what she is doing is out right rude.

kfallon

You did leave her in....and you gave her tea n' biscuits, so weak-willed

caseyann

kfallon wrote: »

You did leave her in....and you gave her tea n' biscuits, so weak-willed

I did not let her in :mad:

Seriously what is up with these people,if you arent calling into them or not accepting tea invites,dont they get the message?

How do you tell them their friendship and opinions are not wanted without been rude

Feeona

caseyann wrote: »

Seriously what is up with these people

I know what you mean. I went around to visit a friend a few hours ago, she saw me coming and just hid.

kfallon

caseyann wrote: »

How do you tell them their friendship and opinions are not wanted without been rude

You decline their 'social' invitations for the next few weeks and they will eventually get the message......



























































.......did she enjoy your hobnobs

caseyann

Feeona wrote: »

I know what you mean. I went around to visit a friend a few hours ago, she saw me coming and just hid.

She is a friend? Are you sure you didnt manifest it and you are a stalker

kfallon wrote: »

You decline their 'social' invitations for the next few weeks and they will eventually get the message......



























































.......did she enjoy your hobnobs

She will be enjoying your hob nobs when i give her your apartment number

CorsetIsTight

caseyann wrote: »

Oh my god she is at the front door :eek: I am hiding

Give her something to talk about next time she calls.

Mess up your hair and answer the door with a wooden spoon in one hand and a cucumber in the other, wearing rubber gloves, high heels and a dressing gown. Tell her you can't stop to chat as you're in the middle of something; if you can breathe heavily while talking, so much the better.

Feeona

caseyann wrote: »

She is a friend? Are you sure you didnt manifest it and you are a stalker

And I was going to ask her to be my bridesmaid too. I've mocked up pictures of her in a bridesmaid dress. She's going to be soo annoyed she's missed out!:P

caseyann

CorsetIsTight wrote: »

Give her something to talk about next time she calls.

Mess up your hair and answer the door with a wooden spoon in one hand and a cucumber in the other, wearing rubber gloves, high heels and a dressing gown. Tell her you can't stop to chat as you're in the middle of something; if you can breathe heavily while talking, so much the better.

AHAHAHAHA she might try to tell me i am doing it wrong and offer me advice on that:( lmao

kfallon

caseyann wrote: »

She will be enjoying your hob nobs when i give her your apartment number

Tell her I'm in Apartment no.1, she'll know which one is mine as the TV Licence Inspector will also be waiting outside for me to let him in! Maybe they will start talking, realise they have so much in common and elope off into the sunset.....it'd certainly help us both out eh!

caseyann

kfallon wrote: »

Tell her I'm in Apartment no.1, she'll know which one is mine as the TV Licence Inspector will also be waiting outside for me to let him in! Maybe they will start talking, realise they have so much in common and elope off into the sunset.....it'd certainly help us both out eh!

Tv licence inspector and nosey neighbor sounds like a match

I snuck out the door got in car driving up the street and she started to run across waving and shouting.I was like oh hi wave and kept driving.I was half expecting to be apart of the terminator scene