Nightclub advice

LC2010HIS

Was told to ask this in AH -


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Hey everyone! Guys and Girls advice appr....

Im going out tomorrow night and as boardsies probably know, im useless with lads.
So, my friends bringing me out on the pull tomorrow night! I need advice on how to pull or get pulled! I havent pulled in a club before lol only on the club scene a little while - haven't a clue - HELP



love clueless

LC2010HIS

LC2010HIS wrote: »

Was told to ask this in AH -


*pastes*


Hey everyone! Guys and Girls advice appr....

Im going out tomorrow night and as boardsies probably know, im useless with lads.
So, my friends bringing me out on the pull tomorrow night! I need advice on how to pull or get pulled! I havent pulled in a club before lol only on the club scene a little while - haven't a clue - HELP



love clueless

If you're female, smile and look like you're having a good time
They'll be on to you fairly sharp

RoadKillTs

Just turn up

Degag

Obligatory Pics or GTFO.

Degag

Actually, never mind that, just tell me what club you'll be in and i gaurantee you'll have no problems;)

LC2010HIS

bluewolf wrote: »

If you're female, smile and look like you're having a good time
They'll be on to you fairly sharp

ive done that before but it doesnt work to well im female

Zombienosh

advice on going to nightclubs?

don't go to night clubs.

LC2010HIS

Degag wrote: »

Actually, never mind that, just tell me what club you'll be in and i gaurantee you'll have no problems;)

lol please be professional :D:D:D
its a ****ty small town club but all in all - gotta make do

Coriolanus

It depends what you're looking for.

If you just want sex, put on your shortest skirt and most push uppest bra. Smile at any guy who looks at you. Say yes when he asks you questions.

If you want a relationship... don't go to a nightclub.

LC2010HIS wrote: »

lol please be professional
its a ****ty small town club but all in all - gotta make do

If you want a professional, the going rate is probably about €100 an hour, seeing as it's down the country. :P

Oh, and what cruel bastard told you to post this in AH?!

Biggins

May I ask one's approx (don't have to be exact) age before making an age appropiate response?

LC2010HIS

LC2010HIS wrote: »

ive done that before but it doesnt work to well im female

Duno it usually works

Go to coppers and you'll feel better haha

LC2010HIS

Nevore wrote: »

It depends what you're looking for.

If you just want sex, put on your shortest skirt and most push uppest bra. Smile at any guy who looks at you. Say yes when he asks you questions.

If you want a relationship... don't go to a nightclub.

ok at the risk of sounding like a starter nun, i only wanna get a number and few kisses - god im so frigid :rolleyes: i sound like im 16 at a GAA disco

dan719

Biggins wrote: »

May I ask one's approx (don't have to be exact) age before making an age appropiate response?

Her username is a bit of a giveaway surely? She's just started clubbing and did her leaving this year (I assume). So say seventeen to nineteen. She's not looking for the ride, just a kiss in a nightclub. Stop being such a killjoy ffs.

OP, you'll have no problem, as a girl you'll have the pick of lads in there. A good tatic is to approach them. They'll be so shocked you can do what you like with them!

P.S I feel so old writing this post.

drunkmonkey

lol, she said frigid.

LC2010HIS

Biggins wrote: »

May I ask one's approx (don't have to be exact) age before making an age appropiate response?

19

LC2010HIS

drunkmonkey wrote: »

lol, she said frigid.

lol:rolleyes:

Biggins

dan719 wrote: »

19

Cheers.

Depends OP what you want to get out of the night.

If your looking for something that you want to be serious/semi-serious at some point in the distant future, don't go dressed to too tarty a clothing in all honesty.
You can still look clean (not too plastered in make-up) and be absolutely attractive.

If your looking generally good, have a constant warm smile and you appear to be full of life (careful not to over act!) and are generally friendly (within safety boundaries) with those around you (others further away will notice this too), you should have no problem.

If your looking for a bloke just for the night (always a poor substitute I feel) which is always less satisfying in the LONG run (again, just my opinion), then if you look "lose" - you should have no problem for sure, finding a bloke or even better, have one come up to you.

Scuid Mhór

gewon op

Coriolanus

LC2010HIS wrote: »

ok at the risk of sounding like a starter nun, i only wanna get a number and few kisses - god im so frigid :rolleyes: i sound like im 16 at a GAA disco

Ahh, well then. Pick a fella that you like. Try to talk to him. This will be difficult in club. Get his number. Lads are thick and usually won't think to ask. Tbh most lads hate these shenanigans as much as wimmenz do. They'll actually appreciate you doing the hard part. And at least that way, you get to pick who you get a snog off, rather than waiting on them.

LC2010HIS

im not one for short skirts at the minute
im thinking something casual
where in a club is good for pulling? at the bar?

Scuid Mhór

sajdkhasskdjakljdalad

OP, don't OVER ANALYSE. just play it cool.

trust me.

LC2010HIS

if only i were brave enough for one night stands :rolleyes:

caseyann

Giggle a bit smile,wide eyes not to much make up not overly slutty dressed and just talk about things you like,always ask a man about himself.If they are worth it and right kind of person for you,you will find someone and they will see your qualities.If you dont find one.Then just think he wasnt there tonight.
On a whole i always think better not to be looking at all.If someone shows a flash of interest show it back.

Biggins

LC2010HIS wrote: »

im not one for short skirts at the minute
im thinking something casual
where in a club is good for pulling? at the bar?

Somewhere furthest away from speakers if possible.
Not very easy and/or attractive if one has to constantly shout all the time to each other and not very private subsequently either.

The bar is one place but if the place is busy, you might be shoved or bumped a lot by others trying to get served in the meanwhile.

You could try standing just a few feet away from the bar depending on the layout of the location your in. Even near a cloakroom (see who enters?) or a cig' machine?

Look around and see where most of the glasses are resting. Thats where you might be most successful.

caseyann

LC2010HIS wrote: »

if only i were brave enough for one night stands :rolleyes:

yeah avoid them like plaque stay true to yourself

The_D_Man

whatever you do, dont do that "hard to get" bull**** where you go around with a kind of sulk and think youre superior to everyone...that ****e pisses everyone off! I just finished the leaving too, happy days!

Scuid Mhór

Giant Squid wrote: »

sajdkhasskdjakljdalad

OP, don't OVER ANALYSE. just play it cool.

trust me.

this is the best advice you will get/best post in this thread.

LC2010HIS

The_D_Man wrote: »

I just finished the leaving too, happy days!

stop now;)

The_D_Man

I echo the sentimets of a previous post when I say, DONT OVER-ANALYSE;)

Cullen82

My advice is to wear a green hat;)

Donkey Oaty

The smoking area is best for meeting people.

Gran Hermano

Tattoo "DESPERATE" on your forehead.

LC2010HIS

Gran Hermano wrote: »

Tattoo "DESPERATE" on your forehead.

thank you for your constructive words :rolleyes::rolleyes: ...lol

Cullen82

Donkey Oaty wrote: »

The smoking area is best for meeting people.

Yeah forgot about this bit.

If you don't smoke, Take it up. Maybe even start practicing now.

But wear the green hat while you're practicing. If you don;t wear the green hat I'm afraid you'll have jinxed yourself!

Biggins

Cullen82 wrote: »

Yeah forgot about this bit.

If you don't smoke, Take it up. Maybe even start practising now.

Please say your joking.
There is nothing as big a turn off as someone that smells like an ashtray and/or when you go to kiss them, you get the stench.

A right turn off.

Donkey Oaty

Biggins wrote: »

Please say your joking.
There is nothing as big a turn off as someone that smells like an ashtray and/or when you go to kiss them, you get the stench.

A right turn off.

You don't need to be a smoker to go out there for fresh air.

Having said that, it's never too late to start.

Cullen82

Biggins wrote: »

Please say your joking.
There is nothing as big a turn off as someone that smells like an ashtray and/or when you go to kiss them, you get the stench.

A right turn off.

Of course I'm not joking,

Chances are she'll meet a fellow smoker in the smoking area,He'll notice her green hat,offer her a cigarette,they'll kiss each other,exchange numbers,Get a taxi,make babies,get married and then have a bag of chips to celebrate.

Man, Where have you been while everyone else has been living the dream:p

SIX PACK

LC2010HIS wrote: »

Was told to ask this in AH -


*pastes*


Hey everyone! Guys and Girls advice appr....

Im going out 2moro night and as boardsies prob know, im useless with lads.
So, my friends bringing me out on the pull tomoro night! I need advice on how to pull or get pulled! I havent pulled in a club before lol only on the club scene a lil while - havent a clue - HELP



love clueless

if your slim, the men wil be on to you like flies on ****e

Biggins

Cullen82 wrote: »

Of course I'm not joking,

Chances are she'll meet a fellow smoker in the smoking area,He'll notice her green hat,offer her a cigarette,they'll kiss each other,exchange numbers,Get a taxi,make babies,get married and then have a bag of chips to celebrate.

Man, Where have you been while everyone else has been living the dream:p

experiencing the dream for myself - smoke free!

Coriolanus

Plus, smoking kills your appetite, making it easier to stay thin and attractive. :rolleyes:

i live in the smoking areas when I'm out. I don't smoke. They're not going to start shouting "shun the nonbeliever" if you don't have a ciggie in the mouth.

SIX PACK

Cullen82 wrote: »

My advice is to wear a green hat;)

& my advice is carry a condom :pac:

Biggins

Nevore wrote: »

...i live in the smoking areas when I'm out. I don't smoke. They're not going to start shouting "shun the nonbeliever" if you don't have a ciggie in the mouth.

This is very true but words to the wise.
If your still living at home, if you come home absolutely smelling of smoke (on your clothes, etc) , they will notice and you know how parents can get with questions! LOL :pac:

Cullen82

Nevore wrote: »

They're not going to start shouting "shun the nonbeliever" if you don't have a ciggie in the mouth.

Whens the next boards night out? You'll be hearing it then!

Cullen82

SIX PACK wrote: »

& my advice is carry a condom :pac:

Taking into account you're 19 OP, I'll just add to this fantastic bit of advice. Don't just carry the condom, It's probably best someone wears it at some point;)

ElaElaElano

caseyann wrote: »

yeah avoid them like plaque

Are you a dentist?

Prof.Badass

LC2010HIS wrote: »

Was told to ask this in AH -


*pastes*


Hey everyone! Guys and Girls advice appr....

Im going out 2moro night and as boardsies prob know, im useless with lads.
So, my friends bringing me out on the pull tomoro night! I need advice on how to pull or get pulled! I havent pulled in a club before lol only on the club scene a lil while - havent a clue - HELP



love clueless

So you're not looking for a score but not sex, and a number but not a relationship :rolleyes::D?

Can I take a guess here and say that you're only doing it to prove yourself to your friends (or prove it to yourself maybe)?

Anyway, it's a silly reason tbh, but deep down most people (including myself) have done the same thing (I'm convinced most guys who go out "to get laid" do it in large part to look cool in front of their friends).

However, you're a girl so it shouldn't be hard. You might get a few rejections, but a drunk guy, even if he doesn't feel like it will probably still do it anyway ('specially if it's been months since his last score ).

:rolleyes:

LC2010HIS

Cullen82 wrote: »

Of course I'm not joking,

Chances are she'll meet a fellow smoker in the smoking area,He'll notice her green hat,offer her a cigarette,they'll kiss each other,exchange numbers,Get a taxi,make babies,get married and then have a bag of chips to celebrate.

Man, Where have you been while everyone else has been living the dream:p

u really are obsessed with that green hat i not only "own" but am "wearing"

Coriolanus

Biggins wrote: »

This is very true but words to the wise.
If your still living at home, if you come home absolutely smelling of smoke (on your clothes, etc) , they will notice and you know how parents can get with questions! LOL :pac:

That's what St.Sin and a handbag sized bottle of febreze is for.

I presume. << I don't carry a handbag, it's a couriers satchel.

LC2010HIS wrote: »

u really are obsessed with that green hat i not only "own" but am "wearing"

Don't destroy his fantasy. It's obviously quite important to his mental well being.

LC2010HIS

SIX PACK wrote: »

& my advice is carry a condom :pac:

im not THAT lucky now like ha!

SIX PACK

Foundry Carlow one of the best Nightclubs in the Republic Imo... & iv been to many... Ul definatly pull here
http://www.thefoundrycarlow.com/index.aspx

LC2010HIS

Prof.Badass wrote: »

So you're not looking for a score but not sex, and a number but not a relationship :rolleyes::D?

Can I take a guess here and say that you're only doing it to prove yourself to your friends (or prove it to yourself maybe)?

Anyway, it's a silly reason tbh, but deep down most people (including myself) are insecure enough to have done simmilar things .

You're a girl so it shouldn't be hard. You might get a few rejections, but a drunk guy, even if he doesn't feel like it will probably still do it anyway ('specially if it's been months since his last score ).

:rolleyes:

sorry for confusing people! I am looking for fun as in getting a number,dance, chat, kiss and seeing how things go. Believe me, i want sex but not brave enough for a one night stand lol - im one of those "someone special" people.
Prove what? :rolleyes:


btw : I AM A GIRL - ONCE AGAIN - A G-I-R-L