Seriously good looking guy

Sugar Shane Moses · 21-07-2010 7:56pm #1

So today the back wheel on my bike got busted - I hit a kirb and the spokes came all loose and the wheel started buckling like it was made out of jellow.

So I pushed it most of the way home. There's a local bike shop situated pretty near my flat so I brought it there.

I met some guy at the entrance and he brought me back to the workshop where the repair dude was.
The repair dude came out from behind the bike he was fixing.

I swear, my jaw nearly hit the floor.

Now, I'll always admire something good looking, and good looks in other guys is something I respect.
I like to see guys with good taste who take the time to groom themselves properly.
But note, I'm strictly into girls.

But this guy was something.

About 5,10 5,11, perfect build - he was wearing a fairly tight short sleeved t-shirt with baggy sweat pants - all perfectly fitted, and trainers.

Hair cut tight at the sides, perfectly groomed and trimmed facial hair - couple of mean looking tattoos on his forearms - toned and tanned.
Well - I was like, God Damn, you are one good looking SOB.

He was saying how much it would cost to fix and so forth - I couldn't take my eyes off him.
Now, I happen to know from being around the shop previously, that the guy is gay - which bothers me not at all.

But it got me thinking - I found this guy, like, good looking to the point I was getting a little nervous almost - couldn't take my eyes off him - like I said.

And I wonder, sometimes people are the same around me. Girls and guys.
I never really even considered how good looking or whatever I was before, but I know I'm well built like this guy, I take care to dress well and stay well groomed, I'm confident and have a good presence - all like this guy.

I always thought if a girl found me attractive it was because I was confident or sure of myself - I never really even considered looks before - I didn't think they were such a big deal to girls really..

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It just gave me a better insight I think as to how people view me, cause I never understood that before, and sometimes I don't know how to react to someone, or don't know the reason why someone may act the way they do toward me.

Like girls for example - some of them get real bitchy around me - and I'm like, "Whats your problem, I didn't do anything to you!?"

And some guys get a little bitchy as well to be honest. I think that may be because I make them insecure about their sexuality maybe.

I'm sure there are people reading this and they're already formulating a response which is somehow intended to demean - folk get jealous..
I wouldn't be surprised if a mod deleted this post - probably out of jealousy again.
But I assure you, this is not a troll job.

Anyway, just looking for some feedback on the situation.
How do you behave around someone you find very good looking or attractive.
Do you get defensive a little?
Do you desire to be the center of their attention and get annoyed if they don't grant you this?
How do you feel around them?

metrovelvet · 21-07-2010 8:13pm

When I worked for a certain institution men from the FBI came in regularly to get access to files and they were universally hot. And no one hesitated to give them whatever they wanted. We all suspected that was why they were hired.

MagicMarker · 21-07-2010 8:18pm

lol

tl;dr version... ''I met this incredibly hot guy today, and he reminded me of me''.

metrovelvet · 21-07-2010 8:20pm

MagicMarker wrote: »

lol

tl;dr version... ''I met this incredibly hot guy today, and he reminded me of me''.

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BINGO.

Sugar Shane Moses · 21-07-2010 8:22pm

metrovelvet wrote: »

When I worked for a certain institution men from the FBI came in regularly to get access to files and they were universally hot. And no one hesitated to give them whatever they wanted. We all suspected that was why they were hired.

Yes, this is another thing also.
I get pretty much whatever I ask for whenever I ask for it. (not referring to something sexual here)

Sometimes, some guys when I ask them for something, they look me up and down, like, resentful or something, and then get for me what I asked anyway.

And I show up late to work every morning and get away with it no problem.
Just a quick "heyyyy", to me female boss and it's all cool.

I never really realized this before - again, I thought it was just down to me being a nice guy, personality wise, or confident or something (although I'm sure these play a part also, as when I was younger I had fock all confidence and I got treated alot different to what I do now) - I never even considered looks before.