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Sex Problem

  • 19-07-2010 11:17am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi. Going unreg for this. The story is. I've been with my gf for a while now but in bed I am still failing to satisfy her. I've tried vibrators, oral etc etc but nothing just seems to work. It's kind of annoying because I love her to bits and want her to be as satisfied as me. Any pointers?


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  • #2
    Miss Fluff
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,673 ✭✭✭Miss Fluff


    Not being smart but have you asked her? She needs to show you and tell you how she makes herself orgasm and then you can do the same for her......


  • #3
    Nevyn
    Closed Accounts Posts: 43,045 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    Can she make herself orgasm?
    If so ask her to show you so you can learn from it.


  • #4
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 0 ✭ [Deleted User]


    There is no such thing as a “pointer” with girls. They are not a Sony Television with a Universal remote control. They are all different. What works for one will not work for another.

    This is why I laugh when I hear guys claiming to be “good” in bed. There is really no such thing. You are only as good as the person you are with and what you did with one girl this week that made her hit the roof, will probably bore to tears the girl you are with next week.

    The ONLY person who can advise you on this… is the girl herself. Probably not the answer you want, but that is it. This is something you have to explore together, and listen to her closely on everything she says.

    Finally be careful interchanging the words orgasm and satisfy. They are not the same thing. You do not need to achieve the first every time in order to achieve the second and quite often with many girls a session without orgasm can be satisfying.

    If you are spending all your time trying to make a girl orgasm she will pick up on this. The session will become split into two categories “Not orgasming” and “Orgasming” and the first will be defined merely as “Not the second”.

    Quite often all a girl needs is to feel you are concentrating on her, and what is happening on her. If you have a look of “Is it working yet…. Is it working yet….” On your face she will feel like “What he is doing he is not doing because it is a lot of fun and because he is enjoying doing it… but because it is a means to an end and the sooner it is over with the better”

    Oral sex and vibrators should be fun and a means in and of themselves, not a slog to get where you want to be. Trust me, for a lot of girls a look on your face of “Oh wow watching that vibrator going inside her is so incredibly hot” is a lot hotter than a look of “I wonder if this will work… maybe if I do it this way… or that way…. Dammit…. let me read the instructions while I do this...”


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