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Confused - Whats Going on ??

  • 14-07-2010 7:55pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Okay I have met this guy over the internet but it wasn't because I was looking or it wasn't on a dating website it was a regular website that everyone goes on, something like here I suppose. Em we really got on and so he sent me his msn. We have been both talking for awhile but straight away he has gotten very sexual with me. I'm there asking him normal questions like how many brothers he has blablabla and then he has to say something sexual. At first I liked it because its something I wouldnt normal do and the other night he got really sexual with me and we start sending sexual texts back and forth and we more or less had msn sex lol. We are both 19 nearly 20. I really like this guy but I think he is using me because it seems like he only comes on msn to talk dirty if you get me. when were on the other website we have a laugh normally. I really like this guy but I know nothing is ever gonna happen. he doesnt live in Ireland, Id rather be friends but I think he will stop talking to me if i dont flirt with him. He is really good looking, and I stupidly told him a few weeks ago that I liked him and ever since then he has been messing with me saying i want him so badly. I feel like he doesnt like me and loves the attention he is getting from me

    he will never like me as a gf would he ?? like does he even like me?? I need a guys opinion if I have been vague about this just ask me to go into more detail on certain things :)


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  • #2
    Mackman
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,810 ✭✭✭Mackman


    Sounds like he's just interested in the sexual side of things.
    Does he ask you about you? Does seem interested in you as a person? If not, then he's probably not interested in having a GF.

    Yeah men think about sex a lot, but its not the only thing that goes on up there.


  • #3
    Overheal
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 86,729 ✭✭✭✭Overheal


    what2think wrote: »
    Okay I have met this guy over the internet but it wasn't because I was looking or it wasn't on a dating website it was a regular website that everyone goes on, something like here I suppose.
    Not that theres anything wrong with that: some studies suggest as much as 1 in 5 relationships now originated from dating sites/the internet.

    In this case though it does read immediately like this guy is hounding around for sexual thrills, not personal connection. And if you're uncomfortable you're uncomfortable: you're under no obligation to continue communicating with him. Go with your gut on this.


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    emm yeah he would talk to me about normal stuff but he would then quickly jump straight into sexual comments, like last night after we finished texting sexually, he soon went offline because he got what he wanted, god while im writing this im starting to realise that he is such a user

    like when girls meet guys on the internet, are all guys like this??
    I'm not looking for anyone right now especially not from the internet but I wish i could continue talking to him but not in a sexual way like if it got close like bf/gf then thats cool but I highly doubt it


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