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Asking for a girl's phone number via MSN/Facebook Chat

  • 13-07-2010 3:41pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,328 ✭✭✭


    Female opinions appreciated.

    So you think its ok if a lad asks a girl for her phone number over MSN or facebook chat.

    I have talked with some of my friends about this, and I know there are times when you do not get a chance to talk to a girl alone and ask for her number, so this can be handy.

    (P.S. I know that if it can be done, it should be left until the end of the conversation because if it started a chat conversation that would be creepy)


Comments

  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 827 ✭✭✭Cian92


    I'd have no problem with it, im a guy though. Make sure to give her your number over msn/facebook chat first though. I've done it before, she didn't think anything of it:D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,673 ✭✭✭Miss Fluff


    Totally fine


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,264 ✭✭✭mood


    It fine.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 171 ✭✭Good Advice


    its the norm really nowadays go for it :P


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 35 pimbeche


    Of course its ok! its good aswell through chat cause you avoid any alkwardness involved through face to face :)


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  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    You can always ask. Just do not take it badly if they say no back :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 265 ✭✭Blarney92


    Not sure if this applies here but something I often use is when you're meeting up with a group of people you just give her your number and say something like "give me a text when you're in town" or something.

    So say if you knew she'd be out on a friday night and you were heading out as well you could go "here's my number 08xxxxxxxx- give me a shout if you're out".

    She'll text you first and there you go... Often is a simple way to see if a girl likes you as well


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 282 ✭✭neveah


    I think it depends on if you actually know the girl & she knows you, or is she someone you don't know from adam but you fancied her picture, asked her to be friends and you tried to get to know her on chat??
    One of my friends knew a guy and they were friends on FB, after a while emailed her and asked her out, she said yes and 10 months later they are still going out so yes it can totally work!
    On the other hand i've had an experience of a guy asking me my name in a nightclub, then telling me he'll find me on facebook and walking away, next day I had a friend request from a guy who I think was him!! I was really surprised, he went to the trouble of finding me on facebook but he couldn't be bothered having a real-life conversation with me in the nightclub:confused:
    What's that about?? It turned me off, I don't think that's a way to meet girls but hey there may be plenty of people out there who disagree with me. I personally do not want to accept people I don't even know on FB. However if the girl knows you and has accepted your friendship request and you have been chatting then I think there is no harm giving your number/asking for hers.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,243 ✭✭✭LighterGuy


    If a girl is into you. She will give it. No need for a big reply :P



    What if you dont know the girl too much? (aka, never met. Just chatted online) .. build up a repour. Women are "comfortable creatures" alot of the time. They only give out there number when they feel comfortable with a guy (or...drunk lol)


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