My ex misbehaving

LegacyUser

Well, looking for advice and opinions please. Ex has been stringing me along about getting back together it's possible he's been naughty and has been sleeping with girls unprotected and then sleeping with me(Stupid I know). Am I being unreasonable to be really annoyed with him and wanting to know if this is the case and if he could have picked up something. I'm heartbroken that he could treat me with so little respect as to not even tell me.

Beruthiel

Why are you allowing him to treat you like this?

If he's your ex, tell him to take a walk and never contact you again.

Ickle Magoo

I'm not sure why you are laying all this at his door...if you suspect your ex is the kind of person who would have unprotected sex and risk your health by jumping back into bed with you then run for the hills and don't look back.

Why are you letting your ex have sex with you anyway, why wouldn't he be just stringing you along if you hand him his cake and let him eat it? Never mind the lack of respect he has for you, get some for yourself and don't allow yourself to be used.

LegacyUser

I didn't know until after he left and told me not to contact him again, I started adding things in my head and it turns out he's not the person I thought and I suspect he may have had unprotected sex. He led me to believe we were getting back together that's the only reason I slept with him, it was his final dig at me, I don't need anyone to tell me how stupid I was i'm already kicking myself.

IITYWYBMAD

It takes two to tango!!! You're silly for having risky sex with him, and he's silly if he's exposing himself to a catalog of STI's. However, you don't know this for a fact, so be careful with your assumptions....

As for him treating you like this??? I actually don't understand that statement.

AvaKinder

Either way you can't take his word on it. Get tested if you want to make sure you haven't picked anything up. Do this before you sleep with anyone else, please.

I'm sorry you've been put through something like this, some people are just jerks!

LegacyUser

AvaKinder wrote: »

Either way you can't take his word on it. Get tested if you want to make sure you haven't picked anything up. Do this before you sleep with anyone else, please.

I'm sorry you've been put through something like this, some people are just jerks!

I've already booked in and unlike him I can't just jump into bed with the next thing with a pulse, so this is not even a concern at the moment. Unreal that he can't just say yes or no he'd rather leave me stew for months. I'd fell better if had been a one night stand but to be treated like that by someone whos supposed to love you.

Ickle Magoo

If he loved you he wouldn't have been stringing you along to begin with, never mind possibly bedding other girls or using you for sex, seriously OP, it sounds like you are well rid. Get yourself checked out by the doc to make sure he hasn't passed anything on then draw a line under it and find a guy who deserves you.

Best of luck

carmel27

Hey OP,
Two words for ya: GET RID. Simple as....