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Should I contact him again?

  • 04-07-2010 10:42pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    There is this guy I became friends with recently and we are friends on facebook. He has a girlfriend (which he never mentioned to me) anyways we were talking via private message and I havent heard from him since last wednesday. I dont know if I said something to piss him off or what. All he said at the end of his message was "talk to you soon". I replied then no reply back. Shuold I say something? I hate this facebook thing.


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  • #2
    shebango
    Closed Accounts Posts: 118 ✭✭shebango


    Are you romantically interested in this guy?

    If so - remember that he has a girlfriend and as such - you're playing with fire!

    Find someone who's available to date or chat to.


  • #3
    Canluum
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 189 ✭✭Canluum


    He has a girlfriend... what are you expecting?

    Don't be an asshat, aim your sights at the countless hot single men out there.


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    No. You shouldn't contact him. He has a girlfriend. Leave him alone.

    What exactly is it you're hoping to acheive?


  • #5
    Miss Fluff
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,673 ✭✭✭Miss Fluff


    shuoldIcontact? wrote: »
    He has a girlfriend (which he never mentioned to me)

    You know now don't you? So just don't stay in contact. He has a girlfriend, and you're obviously interested in him or you wouldn't be posting here so your intentions are hardly honest are they? Leave the guy (and his girlfriend) alone.

    This isn't a younger guy you met on holiday be any chance is it?


  • #6
    Denimgirl
    Closed Accounts Posts: 392 ✭✭Denimgirl


    Stay away from him! he's leading you on and your gonna get hurt! you know he has a Gf, would you like a girl contacting your bloke even if she knew he was with you? it's not nice don't feed his ego and don't be that kind of girl, there are still nice single guys out there!he's not one of them!


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  • #7
    ted1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 23,898 ✭✭✭✭ted1


    it's a girl friend not a wife. Maybe he is not happy with her, ask him whats going on. Maybe meet us with him see how you get on. But no touchy touchy if he is still with the girl¡


  • #8
    dublingal80
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,540 ✭✭✭dublingal80


    should you contact him? No. Why? He has a girlfriend. Have some respect for that. Have some respect for her too.


  • #9
    carmel27
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 170 ✭✭carmel27


    Like everybody else has advised, I too would recommend that you leave him alone! He has a girlfriend. He might not have mentioned it to you, but you obviously must've found out on facebook? Therefore, to me anyway, this would suggest that hes not exactly trying to keep that information hidden from you. The fact that he hasnt come out and told you that he has a girlfriend might suggest that your relationship (if thats even the right word for it) is purely nothing more than friendship to him. It probably means more to you.

    Dont get in touch. Leave him be. And, even if he gets in touch again, keep it in mind that he is with somebody. Dont torment yourself love. You've sent a few private msgs back and forth, and it sounds like you could be reading too much into it.

    Out of interest, can I ask what age you are OP?
    You


  • #10
    mood
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,264 ✭✭✭mood


    ted1 wrote: »
    it's a girl friend not a wife. Maybe he is not happy with her, ask him whats going on. Maybe meet us with him see how you get on. But no touchy touchy if he is still with the girl¡

    That doesn't mean it's ok the chase after him.

    OP forget him and find a guy who 100% single.


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