How do you handle rejection?

fluffyotaters

Rejection is a part of life, we all deal with it, most of us more than once.......we don't get the job we want, we don't get the guy/girl we want etc.....So how do you deal with it?

Fittle

fluffyotaters wrote: »

Rejection is a part of life, we all deal with it, most of us more than once.......we don't get the job we want, we don't get the guy/girl we want etc.....So how do you deal with it?

Chardonnay....:(

biko

Roundhouse.

KTRIC

Ben and Jerrys

consultech

Chloroform.

Wazdakka

Morgan's Spiced.

Feeona

I think they're crazy for rejecting me and continue to have an over inflated belief in myself based on very little evidence, resulting in people avoiding me because I'm so clever and good looking

Dravokivich

With an upbeat can do attitude...

You just got to work the odds really... For all those "No's" eventually someone is going to say "Yes"...

Lisbon for example!

Just keep chugging away!

sam34

by kicking them in the face

Lando Griffin

Just have to settle for second best, and when that dont happen third and so on and so forth.
I was known as Marco Polo for the amount of walking around I used to do in the Disco.

WindSock

Sex Panther.

brummytom

fluffyotaters wrote: »

Rejection is a part of life, we all deal with it, most of us more than once.......we don't get the job we want, we don't get the guy/girl we want etc.....So how do you deal with it?

Curl up in a ball and cry

Banned Account

So tell me, what is this rejection of which you speak?:cool:

bonerm

Suicide.

Luckilly I'm batting 1000 so far.

EL_Loco

prograf......
?
(for transplants.....)
?
(anti rejection drug.....)
ahhhh!!

Gummy Panda

Have a fap

The endorphins help the pain

Brendog

grow a beard and go to vegas

evil_seed

On to the next one

Danbo!

Cake. Just keep on trying til you run out of cake.

albeit

I do not know how to handle it. I don't think alcohol is a godd idea though. Feeling the hurt for as long as it is there and then move on?

Lux23

Booze normally. Sometimes I am able to shrug things off pretty easily it really depends on how happy I am feeling in myself at the time.

Wolfe Tone

Invade Ethiopia.

vampire of kilmainham

fluffyotaters wrote: »

Rejection is a part of life, we all deal with it, most of us more than once.......we don't get the job we want, we don't get the guy/girl we want etc.....So how do you deal with it?

I just dont worry about thing's anymore no point:D

orourkeda

with a shotgun

followed a close second to a damn good fisting

vampire of kilmainham

Another thing i do i practice astrel projection and travel around other astrel plains it's amazing how different you view this phisical world then:):):)

Leftyflip

With... A spoon!
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Quite well I guess, must be followed by cake though.

phill106

orourkeda wrote: »

followed a close second to a damn good fisting

Do you mean you would fight them or......

NothingMan

Stare longingly out a rainy window while listening to "I can't live if living is without you.".

orourkeda

phill106 wrote: »

Do you mean you would fight them or......

Its deliberately ambiguous. Well spotted

orourkeda

NothingMan wrote: »

Stare longingly out a rainy window while listening to "I can't live if living is without you.".

I know what you mean

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zochPeuCI5Q

HalloweenJack

Meh.

I just get on with my life.

Misticles

Rejected by: a job- hasnt happened yet but if and when it does. I will hopefully learn from my mistakes and apply for more.

a fella- hhmmm think I've always got the ones I wanted. :P If and when I do though I will move swiftly onto the next one ha possibly eat a cream cake or two :P

Banned Account

Play this on loop - after 10 mins you'll be feeling happy once more

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PfmB-8onoMo

Nervous Wreck

Take a deep breath, swallow my pride and move on. Best way for it.

Ruu_Old

Go for a run until my legs are about to fall off or a workout.

timelessone

Call the girls round and have a good cry.

Then kick them out and go to Coppers.

cbyrd

TONGS

ovengloves


tweezers



:pac:

Sykk

Drink as much as I can and take a fat bird home instead.

winston82

terminator shower

stovelid

Belittling and humiliating people further down the attractiveness chain.

albeit

Here is a story that put all my further experiences of rejection into a new light (if that works backwards):
My stepfather told me that my mother had told him that she had wanted to have an abortion when she was pregnant with me but that my father(back then, her husband) had stopped her. He further went on to tell me that 'she should have had an abortion because I had wrecked her life', don't know if that was her words or if it was his conclusion. Further information to the story is that my father did never have that much interest inincluding me into his new family.
That's rejection on a large scale. I was only fourteen when that happened. I haven't worried much about jobs and boyfriends rejecting me since. You do get desensitised- but I do not know if that is a good thing.

delop

How would I handle it, Id move to west cork while spending the working week in clontarf , then Id claim expenses of up to 80k , and pay my second home tax on my residence in dublin....

ScumLord

Offer her more money.

The Devil.

I damn them for all eternity.

Bob the Seducer

Blackmail

orourkeda

a good pedal and crank

Apolloyon

I usually find after I've buried the bodies, I tend to whistle a jaunty tune so yeah I think I handle rejection...pretty...damn well!:D

GTE

Facebook stalk

Hazys

All of these people represent the emotions i feel when rejected:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TFO0ORBHDEc

Ticktactoe

Anger management classes....... :mad:

conorhal

albeit wrote: »

Here is a story that put all my further experiences of rejection into a new light (if that works backwards):
My stepfather told me that my mother had told him that she had wanted to have an abortion when she was pregnant with me but that my father(back then, her husband) had stopped her. He further went on to tell me that 'she should have had an abortion because I had wrecked her life', don't know if that was her words or if it was his conclusion. Further information to the story is that my father did never have that much interest inincluding me into his new family.
That's rejection on a large scale. I was only fourteen when that happened. I haven't worried much about jobs and boyfriends rejecting me since. You do get desensitised- but I do not know if that is a good thing.

Jebus H. Christo! That's awful.

It reminds me of a scene in' Before Sunrise' where the character Jesse talks about a similar scenario and how it shaped his outlook on life that was, in a way, kind of positive. I found the quote:

"I remember my mother once. She told me, right in front of my father, they were having this big fight, that he didn't really want to have me, you know, that he was really pissed off when he found out that she was pregnant with me, you know, that I was this big mistake. And I think that really shaped the way I think. I always saw the world as this place where I really wasn't meant to be.
Céline: That's so sad.
Jesse: No, I mean, I eventually kind of took pride in it. You know, like my life was my own doing, or something. You know, like I was crashing 'The Big Party.'