can i still get him back ..?

mainstreets

Broke up with my boyfriend about 8 weeks ago .. i broke up with him twice in a short period of time , i was confused and unsure . He was madly in love with me . I regret it so much now . still in alot of pain . He knows this . When i asked him to give me a chance he said no , never going to happen . However he wants to meet up with me alot , and talks to me alot . Telling me im just a friend . That he wants me to stay as his bestfriend . But nearly everytime we meet up , at the end of the day i end up asking him will we ever happen again , he says no , and i get upset . When we are together i feel like he still loves me . I dont understand . Iv done all the big mistakes , begging for a chance and all that . If he loved me so much then how can he just think of me as just a friend and in such a short period of time . Is there still hope for us atall ? I need advice on how to go about things from here . I dont know if i should try keep up the friendship or cut him out . Cutting him out is something im finding near impossible to do because he would text me and bring me for dinner and things like that and i want him back so badly i cant resist ... help

LegacyUser

You did mess him around a bit, so you'll have to give him a bit of time to find himself again. I think the two of you should stay away from each other. You're torturing yourself hanging around with him, and he's torturing himself with his indecision.

Give yourself a bit of time also to try and understand why you messed someone around that you say you like so much. It's not fair to expect him to be there on demand.

mood

I don't understand people who break up with someone they claim they love for no other reason other than being unsure etc. You can't dump someone twice and expect them to go back for more. It's not fair. You amy get back together or you may not. Only time will tell but don't keep pursuing him unless you 100% sure this time.