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I treated a very nice guy badly - what should I do

  • 15-06-2010 6:28am
    #1
    katie99
    Closed Accounts Posts: 206 ✭✭


    I'm in a stable relationship and met a really nice guy and we got on well. In truth I liked him. We met a few times about work. I don't work with him.
    However, I realised I was becoming attracted to him and panicked or got scared and backed off, refusing to even talk to him. None of it was his fault.
    I took out my own fears on him by sending him an awful email saying I didn't want any more contact and basically trying to blame him for the situation.
    Now, I realise I totally overreacted and treated him very badly. I know I hurt him.
    One part of me says: do the decent thing and apologise to him. while the other says leave well enough alone.
    My bf saw He some texts I'd sent him, yes I initiate texting him and he responded in a nice way, nothing sexual or suggestive. BF wasn't happy and told me not to have anyting more to do with this guy. We are living together. Have been going out three years.
    I just don't know what to do. I feel I have hurt an innocent guy through my own stupidity.
    Any suggestions please.


Comments

  • #2
    m@cc@
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,526 ✭✭✭m@cc@


    katie99 wrote: »
    My bf saw He some texts I'd sent him, yes I initiate texting him and he responded in a nice way, nothing sexual or suggestive. BF wasn't happy and told me not to have anyting more to do with this guy. We are living together. Have been going out three years.

    Was this the reason for backing off or that you panicked?


  • #3
    Silverfish
    Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 16,698 Mod ✭✭✭✭Silverfish


    OP, I have come to the conclusion you are trolling this forum.

    You start threads with different details in each one, and refuse to answer moderator requests for an explanation.


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