Tell tale signs a guy likes you?

LegacyUser

Are there any obvious signs that a guy you don;t know very well likes you? Like what do guys commonly do/act around girls they like?

I want to know if he's feeling the same as I am before I push it further!!

thank

Canluum

Depending on age and experience they'll be:

a) really really obvious.

or at the other extreme

b) not obvious, but eventually ask you out.

btw you should really have given more details in your original posto idea what age you are, what relationship this person is to you? Pre-romantic interactions are so subtle and complicated any of the above could make a huge difference to how you would tell.

If he sorta likes you and is quiet or nervous you can test by offhandedly suggesting something that will lead to alone time between you.
eg:
(Assuming you're a teenager who hangs around with a group on a street corner) "Hey I'm heading to the shop, anyone wanna come?" *looks at mike*

Tailor the above to your own specific circumstances. If he doesn't seem interested in spending alone time with you at all then he's not that into you (no biggie) and you should divert your attention to his hot friend (or someone else hot) who is into you.

LegacyUser

Canluum wrote: »

Depending on age and experience they'll be:

a) really really obvious.

or at the other extreme

b) not obvious, but eventually ask you out.

btw you should really have given more details in your original posto idea what age you are, what relationship this person is to you? Pre-romantic interactions are so subtle and complicated any of the above could make a huge difference to how you would tell.

If he sorta likes you and is quiet or nervous you can test by offhandedly suggesting something that will lead to alone time between you.
eg:
(Assuming you're a teenager who hangs around with a group on a street corner) "Hey I'm heading to the shop, anyone wanna come?" *looks at mike*

Tailor the above to your own specific circumstances. If he doesn't seem interested in spending alone time with you at all then he's not that into you (no biggie) and you should divert your attention to his hot friend (or someone else hot) who is into you.

Thanks for that!!
We're both in our early 20's and are students who work together in our part-time job. We don't see each other very often and although we are facebook friends have never texted each other or anything like that. I'm just holding out hope I guess and what you have just said has made it seem positive!! Thank you!

LegacyUser

DoesHeFeelTheSame wrote: »

Thanks for that!!
We're both in our early 20's and are students who work together in our part-time job. We don't see each other very often and although we are facebook friends have never texted each other or anything like that. I'm just holding out hope I guess and what you have just said has made it seem positive!! Thank you!

If you work togethor try and find a way to help out with a job or task with him then you can try and talk to him, shure if your friends on facebook why not send the person a message maybe relating to something that happend at work or about work, if he is in to you he will more then likely reply at least it opens things up for conversation later on with him.
I kind of take it that he may be not the forward type from your first post but I could be wrong as I dont know the person, but if is shy you may have to be a bit more bluntly obvious that you like him then you have been in previous experiences.

hope everything works out for you

Gunnerkid

send him a message on facebook or try talk to him at work catch his eye to get him over to you.

steddyeddy

yea it really depends on age im around thirty now and ill make it quite evident if i like someone,a girl who i wouldnt mind getting to know better was walking down the street and looked gloom so i said cheer up beautiful, thats not a hint really but more a party political broadcast! my point is when i was younger showing a girl i was interested was not being able to speak and showing off in front of her haha.