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Do you think it was too soon?

  • 08-06-2010 8:41am
    #1
    bubbly123
    Closed Accounts Posts: 44 ✭


    Hi guys.

    Suffering for a little paramoia this morning! lol. I recently met a guy (2 weeks ago). Had our 3rd date on Fri nite and I slept with him. I'm paranoid now that he thinks I'm easy. I've no reason to think this really as he has already asked to see me again. I prob just being silly as I would never usually sleep with someone unless we're in a relationship. Do you think I've messed things up and it was too soon?


Comments

  • #2
    princess-lala
    Closed Accounts Posts: 30,731 ✭✭✭✭princess-lala


    I think you answered your own question there - if he has already asked to see you again then obviously it wasnt to soon.

    Dont be worrying about it :D


  • #3
    spurious
    Moderators, Category Moderators, Education Moderators Posts: 27,315 CMod ✭✭✭✭spurious


    He slept with you on the 3rd date too.
    No it's not too early. There are no rules to do with that. If you enjoyed his company and wanted to, what would it matter if it had been the first date?
    Enjoy the next one.


  • #4
    Ickle Magoo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 17,485 ✭✭✭✭Ickle Magoo


    I slept with a fella on our first date nearly ten years ago....he's my husband now. If he likes you and the relationship works then having sex doesn't change that, it just makes it even better, imo. Your man has asked to see you again, he most likely doesn't have the kind of immature double standards of merrily leaping into bed with a woman and then declaring her not fit for a relationship - and if he does - your better off without him, so I wouldn't worry about it! :cool:


  • #5
    bubbly123
    Closed Accounts Posts: 44 ✭bubbly123


    Thanks guys, making me feel better already.


  • #6
    Abi
    Closed Accounts Posts: 22,058 ✭✭✭✭Abi


    princess-lala wrote: »
    I think you answered your own question there - if he has already asked to see you again then obviously it wasnt to soon.

    Dont be worrying about it :D


    + 1


    I can't really add any more to that, other than it was the right time for you both :)


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  • #7
    Walls
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,258 ✭✭✭Walls


    If it was too soon for you, then it was too soon. There's no checklist to decide when a person 'gives it up too easy' or is a prude. Go easy on yourself girl.


  • #8
    drewgrantt
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1 ✭drewgrantt


    Well...how can we say that it is too early or not. Every woman and man think differently about those kinda things. According to my thought it is not to soon...you dated 3rd time And one thing if you are enjoying and also like his company then it is really ok.


  • #9
    Wibbs
    Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,217 Mod ✭✭✭✭Wibbs


    Not really a ladies lounge thread, but glad you got some feedback.

    Rejoice in the awareness of feeling stupid, for that’s how you end up learning new things. If you’re not aware you’re stupid, you probably are.



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