Why do I...

remembering

keep meeting the wrong men all the time, im so sick of it lately. I wont even go into all my bad experiences as I would be here all night. Why do other people always seem to have such good luck in relationships and everyone I meet there is always some issue or another and why is it so so hard to meet anyone nowadays, are men just not interested in relationships anymore?. Met a guy a month ago and we got on like a house on fire but then he told me at the weekend that he has to leave the country due to work. Im just really fed up at the moment and everywhere i look there are couples in my face. :mad::mad::mad:
anyway, thats my rant for the day. :(:(

minidazzler

Depends really.

Are you hot?

Are you clingy?

Are you above or below the hot-crazy threshold?

Mr Benevolent

Meh, you worry too much. You sound clingy too. Do you own multiple cats?

My name is URL

Being single isn't that bad. Don't let society tell you how you should live life.. just because couples exist doesn't mean they're all happy.. it just means that when things get rough there's double the worry

Rented Mule

Come sit with The Mule and we get you sorted out.

Kiera

Dont think about it too much. You'll meet someone perfect for you someday

bonerm

remembering wrote: »

are men just not interested in relationships anymore?.

When were they ever?

chin_grin

Yes, because AH is well known for it's pity and great relationship advice.

Sigh, ok I'll bite.....here. Cheer up.

ome things in life are bad
They can really make you mad
Other things just make you swear and curse.
When you're chewing on life's gristle
Don't grumble, give a whistle
And this'll help things turn out for the best...

And...always look on the bright side of life...
Always look on the light side of life...

biko

remembering wrote: »

we got on like a house on fire but then he told me at the weekend that he has to leave the country due to work.

Good one, takes notes.

alwaysadub

You'll meet someone when you least expect it.


Or become a lesbian..

Kiera

bonerm wrote: »

When were they ever?

They're not?

*sobs*

Closed ac

Try being single for a while rather than jumping from relationship to relationship. "The one" might appear when you least expect it.

Lux23

I think its funny that people say 'oh you will meet them when you least expect it'. Like does that actually happen?

remembering

thanks for all the nice replies, i will ignore the clingy bits as Im not! I guess i'm just very jinxed when it comes to men!! :mad::mad::mad:
I know I do think about it far to much but Im not sure how to stop, its always on my mind.. I guess Im having a particulary bad week after last weekend and Im not looking forward to the bank holiday at all as Im just not in the mood. :mad::mad::mad:

stovelid

Rented Mule wrote: »

Come sit on The Mule and we get you sorted out.

What he really means.

Closed ac

Lux23 wrote: »

I think its funny that people say 'oh you will meet them when you least expect it'. Like does that actually happen?

We can dream

bonerm

Kiera wrote: »

They're not?

*sobs*

Frayed knot. I'm convinced (were the world able to work that way) most men would prefer playing the field forever.

Que string of male posters going "why I never!" etc

remembering

Lux23 wrote: »

I think its funny that people say 'oh you will meet them when you least expect it'. Like does that actually happen?

ha ha and i used to believe in fate a lot, it wasnt meant to be and all that but not Im not so sure. :(
you do hear it happening but I wish it would happen to me.
might just head to a good fortune teller soon!!

Mushy

Lux23 wrote: »

I think its funny that people say 'oh you will meet them when you least expect it'. Like does that actually happen?

I'd say so alright.

minidazzler

remembering wrote: »

thanks for all the nice replies, i will ignore the clingy bits as Im not! I guess i'm just very jinxed when it comes to men!! :mad::mad::mad:
I know I do think about it far to much but Im not sure how to stop, its always on my mind.. I guess Im having a particulary bad week after last weekend and Im not looking forward to the bank holiday at all as Im just not in the mood. :mad::mad::mad:

Selectively ignoring and refusing to acknowledge bad traits and blaming it on a superstition of being jinxed....she's definitely somewhere a bit to the right on the hot crazy scale, is she hot enough that it's OK?

remembering

alwaysadub wrote: »

You'll meet someone when you least expect it.


Or become a lesbian..

oh god, I definitely couldnt be a lesiban!! :D:D
no offence to lesibans though.

Gran Hermano

Looks like it's easier to generalise and go down the "are men not interested in relationships" route rather than look at the one constant - herself. OP might be worth asking yourself why the men you have dated aren't interested in relationships with you.

remembering

minidazzler wrote: »

Selectively ignoring and refusing to acknowledge bad traits and blaming it on a superstition of being jinxed....she's definitely somewhere a bit to the right on the hot crazy scale, is she hot enough that it's OK?

Not a bit crazy thank ya very much!!!:p

minidazzler

remembering wrote: »

Not a bit crazy thank ya very much!!!:p

Oh, you are. But that doesn't matter if you are hot enough for your level of crazy.

How hot are you?

Liam Byrne

Gran Hermano wrote: »

OP might be worth asking yourself why the men you have dated aren't interested in relationships with you.

Or whether she's subconsciously attracted to / choosing ones that aren't interested in a relationship......

remembering

Gran Hermano wrote: »

Looks like it's easier to generalise and go down the "are men not interested in relationships" route rather than look at the one constant - herself. OP might be worth asking yourself why the men you have dated aren't interested in relationships with you.

oh i suppose but i know the last guy was genuine about having to travel for work but its just so annoying that this would happen. :mad::mad::mad:

Birneybau

remembering wrote: »

oh god, I definitely couldnt be a lesiban!! :D:D
no offence to lesibans though.

Are the "Lesiban" like the Taliban only with tight haircuts and dungarees?

No offence members of the Lesiban!

Giselle

remembering wrote: »

ha ha and i used to believe in fate a lot, it wasnt meant to be and all that but not Im not so sure. :(
you do hear it happening but I wish it would happen to me.
might just head to a good fortune teller soon!!

If you do that you'll just wind up out of pocket as well as disillusioned.

remembering

minidazzler wrote: »

Oh, you are. But that doesn't matter if you are hot enough for your level of crazy.

How hot are you?

ha ha your funny!!
well sure I could say i was very hot but would you believe me?

4zn76tysfajdxp

remembering wrote: »

might just head to a good fortune teller soon!!

There's no such thing.

remembering

Giselle wrote: »

If you do that you'll just wind up out of pocket as well as disillusioned.

I suppose. Bit scared of them aswell so I probably wont. :(:(
thanks

veryangryman

Lux23 wrote: »

I think its funny that people say 'oh you will meet them when you least expect it'. Like does that actually happen?

Yes. In the unlikeliest of situations too

Previous longtime friends, gay bars (twice and yes both times girls) and buses.

Enjoy your own life and things have a habit of sorting themselves out

BTW - What the fec is this serious topic doing in AH :eek:- Someone throw a pie already!

remembering

remembering wrote: »

oh i suppose but i know the last guy was genuine about having to travel for work but its just so annoying that this would happen. :mad::mad::mad:

Was he travelling to Yemen??

Snowie

your no the only one Op.

Plenty of other people with the same problem.

remembering

Kyla Stocky Kettledrum wrote: »

There's no such thing.

Well my sister went to a really good one and she predicted everything about me and it all came true down the line, she was extremely accurate and she was going for advice for herself!!! :cool:

remembering

veryangryman wrote: »

Yes. In the unlikeliest of situations too

Previous longtime friends, gay bars (twice and yes both times girls) and buses.

Enjoy your own life and things have a habit of sorting themselves out

BTW - What the fec is this serious topic doing in AH :eek:- Someone throw a pie already!

wasnt sure where to post it? got this wrong to :mad::mad::mad::mad:

GLaDOS

This might cheer you up

remembering

bluewolf wrote: »

Was he travelling to Yemen??

ha ha
tuva actually!! :D:D
at least this place is cheering me up!

Misty Chaos

Us men are all not that bad, you might just be going for the lame ones!

That is something I could just never figure out!

Chet Zar

Lux23 wrote: »

I think its funny that people say 'oh you will meet them when you least expect it'. Like does that actually happen?

Yes.

remembering

ScienceNerd wrote: »

This might cheer you up

ha ha very good!!! getting lots of laughs now!! :D
thanks

remembering

Snow-Monkey wrote: »

your no the only one Op.

Plenty of other people with the same problem.

True. I guess im feeling like the only one at the moment!! :(:(

Snowie

remembering wrote: »

True. I guess im feeling like the only one at the moment!! :(:(

well your not.

so pull up your socks and snap out of it...
This si after hours where supposed, to bheaving like dick demented perverts and stuff not me tho i is inocent...

veryangryman

WTF!

Women on boards! :eek:

To paraphrase Moe, "When we realised thered been no women in here since 1973, we converted the Ladies Lounge into an office"

remembering

Snow-Monkey wrote: »

well your not.

so pull up your socks and snap out of it...
This si after hours where supposed, to bheaving like dick demented perverts and stuff not me tho i is inocent...

ok ok socks are up!!! Im feeling great again!!!!!!!!!!!!! :D:D

FlutterinBantam

remembering wrote: »

keep meeting the wrong men all the time, im so sick of it lately. I wont even go into all my bad experiences as I would be here all night. Why do other people always seem to have such good luck in relationships and everyone I meet there is always some issue or another and why is it so so hard to meet anyone nowadays, are men just not interested in relationships anymore?. Met a guy a month ago and we got on like a house on fire but then he told me at the weekend that he has to leave the country due to work. Im just really fed up at the moment and everywhere i look there are couples in my face. :mad::mad::mad:
anyway, thats my rant for the day. :(:(

You don't take it up the council so?

Snowie

remembering wrote: »

ok ok socks are up!!! Im feeling great again!!!!!!!!!!!!! :D:D

Your left one is down again you should bend over a pull it up

Ms. Captain M

Are you under some sorta pressure OP? Like biological clock or anything? You may be coming across a little desperate. Relax. Far more advantages to being single than part of a couple IMO

It wasn't me!

FlutterinBantam wrote: »

You don't take it up the council so?

Snow-Monkey wrote: »

Your left one is down again you should bend over a pull it up

Clearly there's a plot afoot here.

remembering

Ms. Captain M wrote: »

Are you under some sorta pressure OP? Like biological clock or anything? You may be coming across a little desperate. Relax. Far more advantages to being single than part of a couple IMO

no pressure, its just the way ive always been i guess and i find it very hard to change though right now Im very allergic to men!!

Snowie

It wasn't me! wrote: »

Clearly there's a plot afoot here.

what are you trying to say ? :eek: