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trying my hardest

  • 11-05-2010 11:59am
    #1
    shoes34
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 620 ✭✭✭


    Hi,

    as the title says trying my hardest not to contact him and its so hard, I can't stop thinking about him but I know for my own sanity I have to as from my previous thread and previous replies its all points to he is now using me as a bootie call.


Comments

  • #2
    Kiera
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13,130 ✭✭✭✭Kiera


    Keep yourself busy and it will pass. Meet up with the girls or your family. Catch up on programs you've missed. Post on boards. Do anything just to keep your mind off it and it will pass soon enough.


  • #3
    shoes34
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 620 ✭✭✭shoes34


    oh we haven't been in contact but just keep thinking about texting him and am trying my hardest to keep busy, going for walks with friends, watching TV but my mind is always on the phone!!!

    I know it will take time ...


  • #4
    Kiera
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13,130 ✭✭✭✭Kiera


    shoes34 wrote: »
    oh we haven't been in contact but just keep thinking about texting him and am trying my hardest to keep busy, going for walks with friends, watching TV but my mind is always on the phone!!!

    I know it will take time ...
    Well there you go. You know you'll get over it. There is no quick fix to get over a break up only by keeping busy. You'll get there!


  • #5
    Miss Fluff
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,673 ✭✭✭Miss Fluff


    A guy messed with my head some time ago and even until a few weeks ago, 18 months on, I was getting weekly texts etc wanting to meet up. I think he is engaged to someone he met after me, so a really really lovely chap.:mad:

    ANYWAY, I phoned O2 a month ago and lo and behold you can totally block someone's number. Well my little heart skipped a beat with delight. Haven't heard from him since because he can't contact me. Block this guy's number, will be the best thing you ever did girl.


  • #6
    triny
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 113 ✭✭triny


    Shoes 34

    I know how u feel but until your ready ur not ready! Its crap being the one whos stuck there alone but fingers crossed with time it will change! Im fed up feeling like this! so remember your not alone and that things can only get better! At least i hope they cant get any worse! :rolleyes:


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  • #7
    Kiera
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13,130 ✭✭✭✭Kiera


    Miss Fluff wrote: »
    A guy messed with my head some time ago and even until a few weeks ago, 18 months on, I was getting weekly texts etc wanting to meet up. I think he is engaged to someone he met after me, so a really really lovely chap.:mad:

    ANYWAY, I phoned O2 a month ago and lo and behold you can totally block someone's number. Well my little heart skipped a beat with delight. Haven't heard from him since because he can't contact me. Block this guy's number, will be the best thing you ever did girl.
    O2 can only block texts not calls. I tried it a few weeks ago.


  • #8
    Miss Fluff
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,673 ✭✭✭Miss Fluff


    Kiera wrote: »
    O2 can only block texts not calls. I tried it a few weeks ago.

    No calls thankfully. Still, can't come soon enough when they can do that too!


  • #9
    lillywhite1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 62 ✭✭lillywhite1


    I know it is tough but it will get better. Try and get some help from friends and spend time with people who will help you deal with the worst of it.

    But it will get better.

    Take care!


  • #10
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    You have every right to be angered that he is using you as a booty call.
    use this anger, (you should be angry, get angry).
    Channel it into seeing red every time you see his id coming up on your phone.
    As a reflex action give him the BUSY tone every time. Do'nt answer any witheld
    numbers just in case he tries that one. Do'nt answer any numbers that you don't
    recognise until you've susses out who it is. #31# 08X (5) XXXXXXX is a good way of
    going straight to someone's voicemail so you can identify a caller who's number you
    don't have saved. Your phone my have a filtering option, whereby you can set up a list
    of callers that you will accept calls from, and all the rest get a busy tone or your
    voicemail.

    Anyway, Definitely take advantage of the o2 Blockit service.

    In this day and age we should absolutely be able to automatically block someone from
    contacting our mobiles, both calls and texts.


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