Normal is a word used by a 'taught' society

sumatra

Cant sleep, genuine reason behind it so cant complain...so whats to talk about...well actually I have a question...for a woman of 26, what would be 'society' estimated guess on how many people she has slept with in her life...(relationships and one-nighters included)...and what would 'society' define as an acceptable number?

amacachi

None. Though if she's married then at least 20 since she got back from honeymoon.

lifeinireland

just havin a guess maybe 10,the poll on this would be interesting.

lifeinireland

i suppose the lengh of the pole would be the deciding factor.

4zn76tysfajdxp

Your use of the word "taught" in that sentence isn't normal.

m@cc@

Jordyn Young Funnel wrote: »

Your use of the word "taught" in that sentence isn't normal.

I taught dat too.

sumatra

sumatra wrote: »

Cant sleep, genuine reason behind it so cant complain...so whats to talk about...well actually I have a question...for a woman of 26, what would be 'society' estimated guess on how many people she has slept with in her life...(relationships and one-nighters included)...and what would 'society' define as an acceptable number?

Guessing as your username is "sumatra" its going to be a tad higher than the "norm"...

sponsoredwalk

Honestly, why would you care wtf people think? Sleep with whoever you want & how many of "them" you want.

I don't know how many things "society" deems acceptable that are just plain wrong... The fact that Jedward even exists should give you some indication of the error we can attribute to mass opinion

m@cc@

sponsoredwalk wrote: »

Honestly, why would you care wtf people think? Sleep with whoever you want & how many of "them" you want.

I don't know how many things "society" deems acceptable that are just plain wrong... The fact that Jedward even exists should give you some indication of the error we can attribute to mass opinion

Probably the first time that Jedward have been referenced to sex.

Dave!

Pics or GTFO

Doc

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Orangutani

Deleted User wrote: »

Guessing as your username is "sumatra" its going to be a tad higher than the "norm"...

Are you maybe thinking of Kama Sutra? Cos Sumatra is an Indonesian island... :pac:

sam34

none

she should aim to be a virgin til her wedding night

otherwise shes just an unchaste impure slut

FACT

Irish Halo

I thought this was going to be a rant that the concept of normal being something which is beaten into us by an overbearing authoritarian government/new world order to keep us in our place.

So if anyone can explain how the topic title has anything to do with the actual questioned being asked please let me know.

sponsoredwalk

Irish Halo wrote: »

I thought this was going to be a rant that the concept of normal being something which is beaten into us by an overbearing authoritarian government/new world order to keep us in our place.

So if anyone can explain how the topic title has anything to do with the actual questioned being asked please let me know.

There's what you thought & then there's what the poster actually asked

There is a Policeman
Inside All Our Heads:
He Must Be Destroyed

Bloody Nipples

Sounds like the OP is trying to justify being easy.

"I've slept with several hundred men. Often with multiple partners at the one time. Cos I'm filthy."

"That's not normal."

"Normal is word used by a taught society."

Nodin

sumatra wrote: »

Cant sleep, genuine reason behind it so cant complain...so whats to talk about...well actually I have a question...for a woman of 26, what would be 'society' estimated guess on how many people she has slept with in her life...(relationships and one-nighters included)...and what would 'society' define as an acceptable number?

To be honest, fuck society.

biko

Just tell us how many it has been OP and we'll let you know...
I think you misspelled Kama Sutra ;-)

m5ex9oqjawdg2i

If you want to fcuk your brains out then do so, if you want to be with the same guy all your life then do it, but do it because you want to, not because of what others think.

There is no answer to the question as everybody will have a perception formed based on their own experiences and upbringing.

3 is "normal" for one, and 33 is "normal" for another. Once you have respect for yourself and don't get treated badly, then it's all good

Cookie_Monster

Orangutani wrote: »

Are you maybe thinking of Kama Sutra? Cos Sumatra is an Indonesian island... :pac:

and a slutty one at that!

Abrasax

sumatra wrote: »

Cant sleep, genuine reason behind it so cant complain...so whats to talk about...well actually I have a question...for a woman of 26, what would be 'society' estimated guess on how many people she has slept with in her life...(relationships and one-nighters included)...and what would 'society' define as an acceptable number?

It's the 21st century. Who cares?
You're going to let the outdated morals of others dictate your happiness or cause you the loss of a nights sleep?

thetonynator

Why even bother counting??? Most people prob can't even remember half of them . . .

Bolag_the_2nd

Bloody Nipples wrote: »

Sounds like the OP is trying to justify being easy.

"I've slept with several hundred men. Often with multiple partners at the one time. Cos I'm filthy."

"That's not normal."

"Normal is word used by a taught society."

hence your user name

Smart Bug

Deleted User wrote: »

Guessing as your username is "sumatra" its going to be a tad higher than the "norm"...

Ah, the Karma Sumatra, a great, great book. :rolleyes:

The_B_Man

OP,

++?

iguana

22,073, bare minimum. Any less and you are obviously extremely undesirable.

Cookie_Monster

depends on how fat they are tbh

Mr Benevolent

Smart Bug wrote: »

Ah, the Karma Sumatra, a great, great book. :rolleyes:

It's a crap book.

starbelgrade

I remember reading a similar post on another forum. It was posted by a lad who was worried about the number of men that his girlfriend had slept with before he met her. Basically, she was a lot more experienced than he had & he was finding that hard to reconcile this in his head.

Most of the replies were of the same ilk, ie., 'why does it matter?', 'the only problem is your own insecurity', 'you shouldn't judge her by double standards etc', but one of the replies was f*cking classic - I'm paraphrasing here, but it went something like this...

"Your girlfriend has had 10 men over a 12 year period. If you estimate that she slept with each man, on average, 30 times, that the average penis length is 6", then your girlfriend has had over 150ft of cock in her vagina before she met you. I hope that helps."

Cookie_Monster

starbelgrade wrote: »

"Your girlfriend has had 10 men over a 12 year period. If you estimate that she slept with each man, on average, 30 times, that the average penis length is 6", then your girlfriend has had over 150ft of cock in her vagina before she met you. I hope that helps."

:pac: Fuckin legend :pac:

bonerm

sumatra wrote: »

Cant sleep, genuine reason behind it so cant complain...so whats to talk about...well actually I have a question...for a woman of 26, what would be 'society' estimated guess on how many people she has slept with in her life...(relationships and one-nighters included)...and what would 'society' define as an acceptable number?

Hmm, 26. I'd say at least 12?

Actually reminds me, I used to know a girl, she had a dozen guys. One of them found out about it... beat her up so bad she ended up at a hospital.

Bonito

Normal = Boring IMO.

sumatra

The inate ability of mankind to answer a simple question is something that makes me consistently laugh, god forbid we just had a simple approach to things in life and not try make 'fun' out of things at all times Im sure the world would be a different place. People's expressions above so as not to be seen as 'one of the herd' i.e. a follower , is ironically all over the answers given. Its a pity that society has such a stronghold on the mentality of people and no-one can give a logical answer for as not be seen as conforming. Many will read this response and think they understand it and will reply with responses to argue my point. But in truth only very few will understand and for those that though I know will not dignify a response. In saying that considering I asked the question and no doubt there will be further responses can I just say the replys forthwith I will not be reading as I have learnt the lesson here that soceity is flocked into the same position and that for me to rely on there answers would be to consider myself one of them, which I am not. Thanks for the nonsensical replys and do enjoy yourselves being conformed

iguana

English isn't your first language, is it?

m5ex9oqjawdg2i

sumatra wrote: »

The inate ability of mankind to answer a simple question is something that makes me consistently laugh, god forbid we just had a simple approach to things in life and not try make 'fun' out of things at all times Im sure the world would be a different place. People's expressions above so as not to be seen as 'one of the herd' i.e. a follower , is ironically all over the answers given. Its a pity that society has such a stronghold on the mentality of people and no-one can give a logical answer for as not be seen as conforming. Many will read this response and think they understand it and will reply with responses to argue my point. But in truth only very few will understand and for those that though I know will not dignify a response. In saying that considering I asked the question and no doubt there will be further responses can I just say the replys forthwith I will not be reading as I have learnt the lesson here that soceity is flocked into the same position and that for me to rely on there answers would be to consider myself one of them, which I am not. Thanks for the nonsensical replys and do enjoy yourselves being conformed

First and only person to be added to my ignored list on boards.ie

Fcuking troll.

Pittens

English isn't your first language, is it?

nor logic. She has what is called confirmation bias.

Everybody responds, by an large, saying society doesn't give a sh*t how many people she slept with and she accuses everybody of being controlled by society.

Also bad title. This one won't last long methinks.

Sinfonia

sumatra wrote: »

The inate ability of mankind to answer a simple question is something that makes me consistently laugh, god forbid we just had a simple approach to things in life and not try make 'fun' out of things at all times Im sure the world would be a different place. People's expressions above so as not to be seen as 'one of the herd' i.e. a follower , is ironically all over the answers given. Its a pity that society has such a stronghold on the mentality of people and no-one can give a logical answer for as not be seen as conforming. Many will read this response and think they understand it and will reply with responses to argue my point. But in truth only very few will understand and for those that though I know will not dignify a response. In saying that considering I asked the question and no doubt there will be further responses can I just say the replys forthwith I will not be reading as I have learnt the lesson here that soceity is flocked into the same position and that for me to rely on there answers would be to consider myself one of them, which I am not. Thanks for the nonsensical replys and do enjoy yourselves being conformed

Act your age, not your postcount.

sponsoredwalk

sumatra wrote: »

Thanks for the nonsensical replys and do enjoy yourselves being conformed

Wait, so some people have asked you why you give a **** about what other people think, but you call them sheep & conformers for answering you...

Personally I wouldn't need the reassurance of "the herd" to goad me into feeling freer about sleeping with X no. of people, I would do it based on what I want & not what other people want.

So, I just hope you know that in asking this very question one could chastize you over your "herd" mentality & the hypocrisy of then criticizing others for that flaw which you yourself epitomize, but we don't all want to appear elitist with no basis for it

--LOS--

ugh your posts are hard to read OP, who cares how many it is, more partners doesn't mean more sex.

biko

This thread is over. If you have a serious question OP post in Personal Issues, not After Hours.
It also helps if you try to take on board what advice you can find about you situation.