First date since Drunken kiss

LegacyUser

Hey there folks can i ask your opinions on a minor issue?

On sunday night a group of us friends went out. Anyways after a few drinks, we kissed in the nightclub, and I dropped her home and kissed her again.

Now we have known each other for years, I have been mad about her for all those years. I made it clear in a text I wanted something to happen and she said that would be nice.
Anyway we have agreed to meet up during the week.

Now when I pick her up do I kiss her there and then, or do I wait until after the mov ie/show/date whatever. I have never really been in the dating scene etc. I would be from the mould of get drunk, score a bird etc, despite the fact that I am in my late 20's.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks a million

Wacker

I'd say that you should go for it early. It will be the white elephant in the room otherwise. You can relax about it afterwards.

Good luck.

LegacyUser

excited but unsure wrote: »

Hey there folks can i ask your opinions on a minor issue?

On sunday night a group of us friends went out. Anyways after a few drinks, we kissed in the nightclub, and I dropped her home and kissed her again.

Now we have known each other for years, I have been mad about her for all those years. I made it clear in a text I wanted something to happen and she said that would be nice.
Anyway we have agreed to meet up during the week.

Now when I pick her up do I kiss her there and then, or do I wait until after the mov ie/show/date whatever. I have never really been in the dating scene etc. I would be from the mould of get drunk, score a bird etc, despite the fact that I am in my late 20's.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks a million

That's lovely, hope it goes great for you. Just stay away from the 'get drunk and score' pattern. Do give her a quick kiss at the beginning, it'll take away the nervousness and then ye can both relax.

greenprincess

I would also say kiss her pretty early. Maybe not in the car, because if she isnt expecting it it can be hard to kiss properly! Maybe before you go into the cinema/pub or wherever. Like I'm not saying attack her or anythin just a little kiss to ease the tension. Good Luck!

rediguana25

Oh my god definitely lean in to kiss her on the lips when u see her. Same thing happened to me last wk- when I met the guy for the first thing after our drunken kiss I was hoping he wud just take the plunge but he didn't and at the end of the night it was so bloody awkward-eek... Think both ofus knew it too as we really didn't know where we stood with each other. If she agreed to meet u knowing u want to be with her then it's a great start- go for it n let us know how u got on!!

vicecreamsundae

awww, yeah i'd say go for a quick peck on the cheek when you meet her and reserve the proper kiss for the end of the night.
and if for some reason you dont kiss her at the start, then at least reach to hold her hand or something during the date. dont leave her waiting til the end of the night to figure out of this is a date date or not!

Exclamation Marc

Well good news is that if she's agreed to meet you, she's clearly interested.

In my opinion, and I could be wrong, but maybe kissing her full on when she gets in the car is a bit too soon. A peck on the cheek at the start is a good idea. If you're going out for drinks or a show or whatnot after all thats happened, its inevitable you will kiss again. Yeah it will be tense waiting for it, but she could be tense too, so best not assault her the second she gets in the car, just a quick peck. You know, maybe go for the old hold of the hand at the cinema/show etc, and then afterwards go for the kill.

You only get one first date with her, and it'll probably burn you the whole date through to full on kiss her, but maybe wait until a little in.

Thats just me though

rediguana25

I give my friends a peck in the cheek-- no has to be a peck on the lips- but be careful be clear ur in control of the situation - go straight in there otherwise she may think ur gonna kiss her cheek n ul end up having the awkward head butting thing going on

Exclamation Marc

Yeah, for a peck on the lips, give her the full eye contact before you go for it so she knows whats about to happen.

LegacyUser

OP here.

Thanks for all your replies folks.
It looks fairly unanimous. A little kiss on the lips so it is when she gets into the car.
I think someone hinted at it there, I need to make my intentions known good and early to prevent slipping back into the friendzone!

Thanks again!