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met up with old flame

  • 04-05-2010 7:56pm
    #1
    longneck
    Closed Accounts Posts: 36 ✭


    posted before about reconnecting with an old flame.tons of contact but not much else,so i bit the bullet and met up with him.several drinks later,on my part,i pushed him about what all this contact was about.got some very vague answers but not much else.anyway,since then our contact has been minimal.i'm guessing i was just a pastime/ego boost or i've freaked him out bigtime.my question is ,should i just leave it now and move on,or contact him to say bye and put a few ghosts to bed?what do you think?


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
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    Seriously dont mean to be harsh here OP, but I'd forget about him. I've done this exact same thing, and I'm female.
    Old flames are old flames because one of other of you decided to call it a day...my guess is it was him? He may have been thinking about you alright and decided to conact you, but then after the meeting, decided against it. I met up with an ex recently. We texted constantly for about 3 weeks - I really believed we had gotten the old spark back. But having met with him, I realised that it's very easy to reinvent yourself thru text messages. Ultimately, the relationship was the same as when we finished up 2years ago.
    Its not a bad reflection on you OP..just put it down to experience and move on from him. I have found all this texting/facebook stuff is such an easy way to re engage with old friends...the reality in alot of cases is that you have lost contact with some of these people because you have little in common with them anymore...I've promised myself I will only re engage with people (including old flames!) in my real life, not my cyber life!!


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