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what to do..

  • 02-05-2010 8:36pm
    #1
    tupac10
    Closed Accounts Posts: 51 ✭✭


    im currently seeing this girl for the last few weeks.. shes great really nice and we get on well.. but, when shes drinking she changes.. she becomes loud and very aggressive.. always making a fool of herself and sometimes me.. i brought her home for a few days and we went out to my local.. she spent the whole night flirting with my close friends. and telling family members very intimate things..it was so embarrassing. its got to the stage where i cant be near her when shes drinking. what should i do?


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  • #2
    cats.life
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 884 ✭✭✭cats.life


    well i think you know what you are going to do ,you cant have GECKLE AND HYDE. (two people in one,)talk to her ,tell her you wont put up with it. flirting with your pal , flip sake thats a no no. life is to short to be messing around. has any of your family said anything bout her?


  • #3
    tupac10
    Closed Accounts Posts: 51 ✭✭tupac10


    i know but the things half the time she doesnt remember .. i've tried talking to her about but she doent see a problem.. ya my brothers just said very loud and needs to keep alot of things to herself.. like we wer in the pub today with my family early enough we wer all ok and she was falling around the place shoutin in front of my family, she embarresed my family infront our close friend... but without drink shes so nice and sweet and quiet.. i really dont know..


  • #4
    Ickle Magoo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 17,485 ✭✭✭✭Ickle Magoo


    I think you have to be honest and tell her how you feel and why. Then she has a choice of either keeping the drinking on a close rein and improving her behaviour or loosing you. Make sure she knows it's a deal breaker and how embarrassing and inappropriate you find her behaviour when she has a drink on board.

    Best of luck.


  • #5
    cats.life
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 884 ✭✭✭cats.life


    tupac10 wrote: »
    i know but the things half the time she doesnt remember .. i've tried talking to her about but she doent see a problem.. ya my brothers just said very loud and needs to keep alot of things to herself.. like we wer in the pub today with my family early enough we wer all ok and she was falling around the place shoutin in front of my family, she embarresed my family infront our close friend... but without drink shes so nice and sweet and quiet.. i really dont know..
    when she cant remember that makes it worse, she has a drink problem. pluck up all your courage and tell her, you said yourself you only being with her a few weeks, you will fell a 100% better when you do cos this is causing you big stress. its not fair on you and your family for her to embarress you all in front of life long friends. its not only you who she is doing it to. think of your family.:):)


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