women friend

load1234

How does a unemployed man get female love and friendship ?

The married women will say no and the single women say no.
what can be done.

epgc3fyqirnbsx

Well for a start keep away from the married women big guy!
As for the singles just do what you usually do, dont bring up work unless she asks. And she probably wont care as long as you haven't been on the scratch for the past 5 years.
Sure lots of people from all walks are in the same boat now.
You'll get nowhere if you're negative

PCPhoto

load1234 wrote: »

How does a unemployed man get female love and friendship ?

The married women will say no and the single women say no.
what can be done.

in olden times he would get her by using his charm and wit !!!

Otis Driftwood

load1234 wrote: »

How does a unemployed man get female love and friendship ?

The married women will say no and the single women say no.
what can be done.

Same as employed men.


If you are getting rejected simply because you arent working then you are going for the wrong types of people IMO.If a woman (or bloke) judges you because of your job then they arent really worth the bother.It is a recession and there are thousands out of work so its not like you are alone.Once you arent a long term unemployed (by choice I mean) then it shouldnt matter.

ghostdog1

nedtheshed wrote: »

Same as employed men.


If you are getting rejected simply because you arent working then you are going for the wrong types of people IMO.If a woman (or bloke) judges you because of your job then they arent really worth the bother.It is a recession and there are thousands out of work so its not like you are alone.Once you arent a long term unemployed (by choice I mean) then it shouldnt matter.

This is true, if a woman is rejecting you because you are unemployed it's the shallowist thing and you don't want to be with tha type of person. I would have no problem dating someone who is currently unemployed, we're in a recession for feck sake & since when has it just become about employment status, do other factors that make you want to date or meet someone still not stand, ie, how you get on, caring about someone etc!! Not all woman are like that, hope you find what you're looking for:)

load1234

how can I contact women with no money all
benefits are spend on living bills.

Where are single women they all seem to be
married or with boyfriend.

shellyboo

They don't all meet up in one place waiting for the single men to show up! You can meet single women anywhere - the post office, welfare office, supermarket, FAS office, coffee shop, bookshop, bus stop... Literally anywhere. You don't need money to meet women.

speedboatchase

shellyboo wrote: »

They don't all meet up in one place waiting for the single men to show up! You can meet single women anywhere - the post office, welfare office, supermarket, FAS office, coffee shop, bookshop, bus stop... Literally anywhere. You don't need money to meet women.

I can see where he's coming from though - people that would reject you outright because you're unemployed are obviously very shallow people BUT if you were chatting someone up and they ask "so what do you do?", that could still be a very awkward situation and could kill any kind of momentum in the conversation depending on how you react, subconciously even. It's like if someone has been fired and has to admit it when an employer is going through his C.V in a job interview - it isn't going to feel nice talking about it and the person could judge you straight away. I think it's less a big deal as it would be years ago simply because we're all in this recession together though

Snowie

I truthfully wouldnt be fussed over any woman that wouldnt be with me because I'm unemployed while eys there is a lot of sitting your backside waiting on phone calls which dont often come.

If shes that far up her celobus passage, I say...

No skin off your noise and more off hers.

Women like that arnt even worth giving a moments dout over...

the drifter

I generally tell a woman who asks what i do that " im between jobs" which i am not..and that " i rent an apartment" which i do not.....i figure if she is still interested after finding out i dont have a job and dont own property then i may have just found a keeper......

this might explain why im still single :P

Malari

the drifter wrote: »

I generally tell a woman who asks what i do that " im between jobs" which i am not..and that " i rent an apartment" which i do not.....i figure if she is still interested after finding out i dont have a job and dont own property then i may have just found a keeper......

this might explain why im still single :P

"In between jobs" is one thing, but do you think people reject you because you rent? That's just weird!

the drifter

Malari wrote: »

"In between jobs" is one thing, but do you think people reject you because you rent? That's just weird!

Its limerick...during "boom" times your living quaters were always a factor...

i think now its changed to " so have you had any dealings with NAMA"

Malari

the drifter wrote: »

Its limerick...during "boom" times your living quaters were always a factor...

i think now its changed to " so have you had any dealings with NAMA"

Huh, I've never come across that. By my logic people who rent would be more likely to have more disposable income for eating out, cinema, holidays etc!

load1234

Meeting women at the post office, welfare office, supermarket, FAS office, coffee shop, bookshop, bus stop, I guess someone would call
the police ?

The manager of these places are likely to ban you when you say hello
and a women screams puts her hands in the air and runs away.

Lots of women would run off and call you a rapist.

Where can a person get help with this ?

They ask what do you do, what have you got and then scream to
get rid of you quick.

Malari

load1234 wrote: »

Meeting women at the post office, welfare office, supermarket, FAS office, coffee shop, bookshop, bus stop, I guess someone would call
the police ?

The manager of these places are likely to ban you when you say hello
and a women screams puts her hands in the air and runs away.

Lots of women would run off and call you a rapist.

Where can a person get help with this ?

They ask what do you do, what have you got and then scream to
get rid of you quick.

What's wrong with you man? Are you wielding an axe while saying hello? What you describe is not a normal reaction to someone just saying "hello".

augustus gloop

load1234 wrote: »

Meeting women at the post office, welfare office, supermarket, FAS office, coffee shop, bookshop, bus stop, I guess someone would call
the police ?

The manager of these places are likely to ban you when you say hello
and a women screams puts her hands in the air and runs away.

Lots of women would run off and call you a rapist.

Where can a person get help with this ?

They ask what do you do, what have you got and then scream to
get rid of you quick.

sounds like you have a burning off some women, chin up it will pick up

Otis Driftwood

load1234 wrote: »

Meeting women at the post office, welfare office, supermarket, FAS office, coffee shop, bookshop, bus stop, I guess someone would call
the police ?

The manager of these places are likely to ban you when you say hello
and a women screams puts her hands in the air and runs away.

Lots of women would run off and call you a rapist.

Where can a person get help with this ?

They ask what do you do, what have you got and then scream to
get rid of you quick.

What the hell?No they wouldnt,in fact I would bet any woman that you say hello to would say hello back.They may not try and strike up a conversation but to say the above would happen is frankly ludicrous.

load1234

I guess I say hello to women that already have many boy friends,
I have seen women who scream for no reason and I have seen women
scream when someone looked at them at their front door. How can a person get help finding dates ?

Novella

load1234 wrote: »

Meeting women at the post office, welfare office, supermarket, FAS office, coffee shop, bookshop, bus stop, I guess someone would call
the police ?

The manager of these places are likely to ban you when you say hello
and a women screams puts her hands in the air and runs away.

Lots of women would run off and call you a rapist.

Where can a person get help with this ?

They ask what do you do, what have you got and then scream to
get rid of you quick.

Are you serious? Any woman who'd call you a rapist and run off should only be running in one direction and that is towards the nearest looney bin.

If anyone said hello to me anywhere, I'd say hello back. So would most people.

D'Agger

load1234 wrote: »

I guess I say hello to women that already have many boy friends,
I have seen women who scream for no reason and I have seen women
scream when someone looked at them at their front door. How can a person get help finding dates ?

Well if hollywood is to be believed, standing around corners waiting to bump into a woman holding loads of books/groceries/items then helping her pick up these items before reaching for the same item and sharing a moment always works

load1234

PaulieC women have cars now and might do
assault charges when you do dumping in too.

PaulieC can your female mates meet me sometime ?

Where can I find women to help me ?

Why do people always think about sex can men and
women not be friends without sex ?

Monkeybonkers

Lol
Troll

Kimia

This thread is actually really creepy. I don't understand how someone can actually think these things. :(

pebbles21

Has the primary school holidays started already??

load1234

What is wrong with looking for older women to be friends with ?

It is not creepy looking for older women for friends.

Why does someone not want to help me I do not understand.

Monkeybonkers

Kimia wrote: »

This thread is actually really creepy. I don't understand how someone can actually think these things. :(

It's not really that creepy. This same troll had another thread a while ago pretty much along the same lines.

force majeure

Answers to the questions on a post card to the late late... on the other hand all I can say is fib for all you life is worth, get a part time job, do an evening course or start a biz... always a way to fill the void off the dole question, that failing tell them you are between jobs.

Greyfox

load1234 wrote: »

How can a person get help finding dates ?

Forget abut finding dates for now, you need to learn how to socialise and be comfortable with women first as you seem to have a very silly opinion of women at the moment. Try doing some charity work for now or a part time course in a place that has lots of women so that you get use to actually talking to women, you need to actually get use to interacting with women befor you can even think of trying to get a date

xsiborg

load1234 wrote: »

What is wrong with looking for older women to be friends with ?

It is not creepy looking for older women for friends.

Why does someone not want to help me I do not understand.

sounds like you need help alright, but not the kind anyone here can give you... :rolleyes:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9CMmwVRAtaI

OS119

load1234 wrote: »

I guess I say hello to women that already have many boy friends,
I have seen women who scream for no reason and I have seen women
scream when someone looked at them at their front door. How can a person get help finding dates ?

if you take off the balaclava, and don't have a hammer and gaffer tape stashed in your waistband, you may find talking to women easier...

load1234

I look nice, I have no weapons.

I need a group of women who will allow me to learn and
not crazy women who scream and run away when you say hello.

Mens club show you how to plant a carrot this is no
use, I prefer to buy carrots in supermarket.

Who can help me ?

Monkeybonkers

I have reported your post as trolling is one of the most annoying things about internet forums.
You should maybe think about changing your trolling style as you are becoming quite easy to recognise. Your numerous bans from other forums will hopefully come back to haunt you in the end.

load1234 wrote: »

Who can help me ?

Only you can help yourself

NothingMan

load1234 wrote: »

I look nice, I have no weapons.

I need a group of women who will allow me to learn and
not crazy women who scream and run away when you say hello.

Mens club show you how to plant a carrot this is no
use, I prefer to buy carrots in supermarket.

Who can help me ?

A psychiatrist!

miss5

The same as when you were employed, If she likes you it wont be a dealbreaker.

Dr Galen

enough is enough