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Confused

  • 26-04-2010 4:49pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hey guys,

    Cracking up, could do with some advice will try to be brief!

    The boyf and I together two years- has been on and off, due to his unwillingness to commit and his eye for other women.

    In Sept I finished it for good, however at xmas he convinced me to go back with him, and seems to have changed, we moved in together (his idea) quickly and everyone says he is besotted with me.

    However the three months we were apart, he slept around a fair bit locally, I am hearing more about it recently, one woman in particular has really bothered me. I cant stop thinking about it. I love him, and did believe he had changed, but at the moment I just keep thinking of him as a sleaze, who seems to have been drawn to the sleaziest older women while we were apart, or just anything with a pulse really. Its making me think of him different. I dont know what to do....


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  • #2
    TitoPuente
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    Sounds like a bit of a crap situation for you to be in. First thing I would say is be careful and try and distance your heart and your head for the moment, as hard as that may be, so that you can analyse the situation properly and work out whether he is a deceptive, dishonest person or not.

    To be fair, he slept around with other women after you broke up with him so that part you'll have to just decide to get over... or end things if you can't. Also, the fact that he asked you to move in with him is a pretty big step forward in terms of declaring his commitment to you I would say. Do you have a healthy social life with this guy? Do you know and get on well with his friends? Does he get on with yours? Have you met each others' families yet? Does he still seem to have an eye for other women? If so, does he ever do things to that end that demonstrate a lack of respect for you? (i.e. leave you standing with a drink in your hand while he goes and chats up other women, flirt with other women in front of you, etc)


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Hi, yeah I can see your point, and I agree he has moved forward commitment wise etc. We do spend alot of time together, and yes to all the family and friends stuff. He does comment on other women, but I guess his roving eye has calmed. He still chats to women alot, but always introduces me as his girlfriend pretty quick, he is a really sociable guy. I think maybe its me. Thanks for the comment


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