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Nude pics

  • 21-04-2010 12:09am
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    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026
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    How do u feel if you see nude pics on partners pc , thought all was well and then felt like world had fallen apart


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,057 Wacker
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    ts3ts wrote: »
    How do u feel if you see nude pics on partners pc , thought all was well and then felt like world had fallen apart
    As in you saw that your fella had been looking at porn? Your post wasn't very clear. Look at it this way, even if it's a bit crude: porn is the reason guys tend to be able to find their GF's clit these days!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,095 Wurly
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    Wacker wrote: »
    As in you saw that your fella had been looking at porn? Your post wasn't very clear. Look at it this way, even if it's a bit crude: porn is the reason guys tend to be able to find their GF's clit these days!

    Ha - really? I''d say the opposite. Rather, it teaches - in out in out and we're screaming all over the place.;)

    Back on topic, OP you need to be more specific. Were these pics of a girl you know or were they from a porn site? Without this info, it would be hard to advise you further.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,073 sam34
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    nude pics of who?

    you? him? friends/acquaintences? online acquaintences? porn stars?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,284 pwd
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    You should check the date they were put there. Could be from before they were going out with you
    If it's of someone they know, then it's bad. Porn, then meh. If it's of themselves it could be bad or nothing at all.
    But check the date of them anyway, then quit rooting through their stuff.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17,485 Ickle Magoo
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    Depends on whose nude pics they are...women? children? friend? himself?

    Need more details before I can give any advice.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,975 Greyfox
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    ts3ts wrote: »
    How do u feel if you see nude pics on partners pc , thought all was well and then felt like world had fallen apart

    Would see it as perfectly normal and would be annoyed if my partner did see anything wrong with it! just as long as it's not underage or some really weird fetish


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 911 whatsamsn
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    Well, I dont know if people would agree with this. But its either 1 of 3 things.

    1, its porn. - thats nothing to worry about if it is. Lot of people look at porn. Nothing to worry about. As long as the porn isnt excessive.
    2, its a naked picture of them - that would be worrying. Obviously then that picture would of been taken with the intention of sending it to others (social network sites? sex sites? etc) ... which you should really check the date of when the photo was taken. It will say. Then you'd know if it was taken before you got into a relationship with them, or during. Downside to this is just because the picture might say taken a year ago. Doesnt automatically rule out its still being sent to others online.
    3, Its a naked picture of someone else - Again, would suggest they are talking to other people online. Yes it could of been recieved before they got into a relationship with the OP. But again, suggests online flirting. So you'd need to see the date.


    My gut is telling me its either point 2 or 3.
    I doubt its just a picture of some pornstar. So op check the date on the picture. Best advice. Preferably checking before mentioning it to your partner. Last thing you would want is the pic to get deleted then you'll never know the full facts.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,228 epgc3fyqirnbsx
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    If it's porn I wouldnt worry.
    Porn is to men what vibrators are to women. It's just a means of getting off when you're bored


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,466 Blisterman
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    whatsamsn wrote: »
    Well, I dont know if people would agree with this. But its either 1 of 3 things.

    1, its porn. - thats nothing to worry about if it is. Lot of people look at porn. Nothing to worry about. As long as the porn isnt excessive.
    2, its a naked picture of them - that would be worrying. Obviously then that picture would of been taken with the intention of sending it to others (social network sites? sex sites? etc) ... which you should really check the date of when the photo was taken. It will say. Then you'd know if it was taken before you got into a relationship with them, or during. Downside to this is just because the picture might say taken a year ago. Doesnt automatically rule out its still being sent to others online.
    3, Its a naked picture of someone else - Again, would suggest they are talking to other people online. Yes it could of been recieved before they got into a relationship with the OP. But again, suggests online flirting. So you'd need to see the date.


    My gut is telling me its either point 2 or 3.
    I doubt its just a picture of some pornstar. So op check the date on the picture. Best advice. Preferably checking before mentioning it to your partner. Last thing you would want is the pic to get deleted then you'll never know the full facts.

    I dont think in option 2, the photo would be nessesarily for other people. It's just as likely that it's for his own use.

    Of course the fact that he would have taken it without her permission is a big issue.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 911 whatsamsn
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    Blisterman wrote: »
    I dont think in option 2, the photo would be nessesarily for other people. It's just as likely that it's for his own use.

    Of course the fact that he would have taken it without her permission is a big issue.

    Blisterman,
    if someone takes a picture of themself naked you can gurantee that picture was taken with the intent of showing someone else (as to whom... could be mulitple things... current partner, an then partner at the time, someone they are flirting with etc etc, i could go on)

    If you think that perhaps such a picture would be taken because maybe the person is insecure about their body? ... That would be naive. I'd go as far as to say 99% of the time naked pictures are taken with the intent for someone elses eyes :)


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,199 G-Money
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    I think the OP needs to give more information here. Are the pics of them, their partner, someone else, someone famous, porn, what?

    Their original post is quite vague and doesn't give much in the way of detail.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4 Lolly1869


    well, i've felt like crap the last while because my fiance has been constantly looking around bebo and facebook at any girl who poses half naked in her pictures, i for one don't mind him watching porn and occasionally we would watch it together but lately him looking at these pictures of girls and women that live close by is kind of worrying but when i say how its making me feel he gets annoyed.iits so hard because I love him so much


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 125 Frei
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    well, i've felt like crap the last while because my fiance has been constantly looking around bebo and facebook at any girl who poses half naked in her pictures, i for one don't mind him watching porn and occasionally we would watch it together but lately him looking at these pictures of girls and women that live close by is kind of worrying but when i say how its making me feel he gets annoyed.iits so hard because I love him so much

    Ask him would he mind if you did were doing it? I am sure if he caught you doing the exact same thing he wouldn't be so nonchalant.

    As for the OP, the majority of men look at porn, in one form or another. It is just something they do. Some women do too. Unless they are not appropriate, or of people that you know, I would not worry. Though if you are very upset about it maybe just tell him how you feel? It is better to just talk it out rather than letting it build up inside you.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,466 Blisterman
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    Blisterman wrote: »
    I dont think in option 2, the photo would be nessesarily for other people. It's just as likely that it's for his own use.

    Of course the fact that he would have taken it without her permission is a big issue.

    I misinterpreted. I thought "them" meant the OP. Never mind then.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,073 sam34
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    whatsamsn wrote: »
    Blisterman,
    if someone takes a picture of themself naked you can gurantee that picture was taken with the intent of showing someone else (as to whom... could be mulitple things... current partner, an then partner at the time, someone they are flirting with etc etc, i could go on)

    If you think that perhaps such a picture would be taken because maybe the person is insecure about their body? ... That would be naive. I'd go as far as to say 99% of the time naked pictures are taken with the intent for someone elses eyes :)

    not necessarily

    most of the time, probably, you're right

    but i know someone who used take naked photos of herself every month, because she was on an epic weightloss journey and wanted visual evidence of her changing shape

    just a thought!


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