Would you tell a Female you still have feelings for her

liverpool100

I am male late 20's and have not seem a female friend for a few years, just left each other life and time went by without contact by either.(similar to when robbie willimas walked out door of take that, did not really realise the significance of what just happened) I think we both needed time apart at time

Now hand on heart I still have very strong feelings for her, and feel life is too short not to tell people you really care about what they mean to you.

The question I ask is mainly is mainly to female readers on board. How would you take it to get email from some one you know a few years before saying they were and still are in love with you. Would it freak you out?

TheZohanS

Lol!

ibarelycare

liverpool100 wrote: »

I am male late 20's and have not seem a female friend for a few years, just left each other life and time went by without contact by either.(similar to when robbie willimas walked out door of take that, did not really realise the significance of what just happened) I think we both needed time apart at time

Now hand on heart I still have very strong feelings for her, and feel life is too short not to tell people you really care about what they mean to you.

The question I ask is mainly is mainly to female readers on board. How would you take it to get email from some one you know a few years before saying they were and still are in love with you. Would it freak you out?

Heh...

Kiera

TheZohan wrote: »

Lol!

And he's back

Sykk

Life is too short. But be more subtle ffs! Mail her and ask her how she's getting on, hows life, what she's doing? See where it goes from there.

If you mail her and spill your heart out, game over!

high horse

Female what? Labrador?

Snowie

TheZohan wrote: »

Lol!

ha :pac:

just bah her back doors in OP shel love you for it

I swear

m@cc@

You won't find the answer you want in this forum.

Snowie

m@cc@ wrote: »

You won't find the answer you want in this forum.

Hello

your not supposed to tell him

we'llallhavetea_old

Sykk wrote: »

Life is too short. But be more subtle ffs! Mail her and ask her how she's getting on, hows life, what she's doing? See where it goes from there.

If you mail her and spill your heart out, game over!

this.

don't go in guns blazing and freak her out.

she'll be chuffed you got in contact with her.

dvpower

Isn't this the kind of thing Facebook was invented for?

Kiera

we'llallhavetea wrote: »

this.

don't go in guns blazing and freak her out.

she'll be chuffed you got in contact with her.

Not always the case. Maybe she didnt contact him for a reason?

Max Power1

we'llallhavetea wrote: »

this.

don't go in guns blazing and freak her out.

she'll be chuffed you got in contact with her.

but it would bo so much more funny if he did go all guns blazing and propose for example

Pyr0

Kiera wrote: »

Not always the case. Maybe she didnt contact him for a reason?

He'll never know until he tries.

Wolfe Tone

Go for it!

Kiera

Pyr0 wrote: »

He'll never know until he tries.

Or if she wanted contact she would have done so too?

Max Power1

id say go for it. Send her some roses and a ring.

Pyr0

Kiera wrote: »

Or if she wanted contact she would have done so too?

Maybe she's feeling exactly the same way the OP is and like him, hasn't taken the risk in asking.

Pretty simple really, you'll know the answer if you ask !

we'llallhavetea_old

Kiera wrote: »

Not always the case. Maybe she didnt contact him for a reason?

shhh! lets just sit back and see what happens *sips tea*

Sykk

Or you could ignore my first bit of advice.. Get a tattoo of her face on your belly, lock pick her door, wait for her to come home and as soon as she walks in, be there, naked, on one knee with a ring and a rose down yer japs eye!

TheZohanS

Pyr0 wrote: »

He'll never know until he tries.

Very true.

Women love surprises and to be swept off their feet. Why not kidnap her?

Earthhorse

dvpower wrote: »

Isn't this the kind of thing Facebook was invented for?

Yup. Add her as a friend on Facebook. That always works out.

Abi

liverpool100 wrote: »

I am male late 20's and have not seem a female friend for a few years, just left each other life and time went by without contact by either.(similar to when robbie willimas walked out door of take that, did not really realise the significance of what just happened) I think we both needed time apart at time

Now hand on heart I still have very strong feelings for her, and feel life is too short not to tell people you really care about what they mean to you.

The question I ask is mainly is mainly to female readers on board. How would you take it to get email from some one you know a few years before saying they were and still are in love with you. Would it freak you out?

Email her by all accounts, but don't go in all guns blazing. Ask her how is life is and if there is anything new with her etc. You don't want to go spilling your guts if shes shacked up with another guy

TheZohan wrote: »

Lol!

Lol. Hello, long time no see!

Kiera

we'llallhavetea wrote: »

shhh! lets just sit back and see what happens *sips tea*

Have you learned nothing about me ffs! Bovril! :mad:

Le King

:pac::pac:


I have to laugh.

Kiera

Earthhorse wrote: »

Yup. Add her as a friend on Facebook. That always works out.

Aw Hippo you make me laugh!

OutlawPete

liverpool100 wrote: »

I am male late 20's and have not seem a female friend for a few years, just left each other life and time went by without contact by either.(similar to when robbie willimas walked out door of take that, did not really realise the significance of what just happened) I think we both needed time apart at time

Now hand on heart I still have very strong feelings for her, and feel life is too short not to tell people you really care about what they mean to you.

The question I ask is mainly is mainly to female readers on board. How would you take it to get email from some one you know a few years before saying they were and still are in love with you. Would it freak you out?

Do you know if she's single now?

we'llallhavetea_old

Kiera wrote: »

Have you learned nothing about me ffs! Bovril! :mad:

oh crap! *makes a cup of (manky) bovril and passes it to kiera*

now, sit back and sip with me

old hippy

It does happen sometimes you can reconnect with someone after 5, 10, 15, 20 years... but it doesn't necessarily go anywhere. You may find you're two very different people and have little in common.

Wish you luck, brother - but as others have said, be more subtle and don't gush it all out.

msg11

liverpool100 wrote: »

I am male late 20's and have not seem a female friend for a few years, just left each other life and time went by without contact by either.(similar to when robbie willimas walked out door of take that, did not really realise the significance of what just happened) I think we both needed time apart at time

Now hand on heart I still have very strong feelings for her, and feel life is too short not to tell people you really care about what they mean to you.

The question I ask is mainly is mainly to female readers on board. How would you take it to get email from some one you know a few years before saying they were and still are in love with you. Would it freak you out?

Wouldnt bother telling her you love her. Plus people change threw the years, she might not be the same person you think you love.

I would take it very easy, get in touch find out things, then see if you think she thinks the same. No need to make a show of yourself.

digme

liverpool100 wrote: »

I am male late 20's and have not seem a female friend for a few years, just left each other life and time went by without contact by either.(similar to when robbie willimas walked out door of take that, did not really realise the significance of what just happened) I think we both needed time apart at time

Now hand on heart I still have very strong feelings for her, and feel life is too short not to tell people you really care about what they mean to you.

The question I ask is mainly is mainly to female readers on board. How would you take it to get email from some one you know a few years before saying they were and still are in love with you. Would it freak you out?

Leave your daughter alone man,not worth it.

az2wp0sye65487

liverpool100 wrote: »

I am male late 20's and have not seem a female friend for a few years, just left each other life and time went by without contact by either.(similar to when robbie willimas walked out door of take that, did not really realise the significance of what just happened) I think we both needed time apart at time

Now hand on heart I still have very strong feelings for her, and feel life is too short not to tell people you really care about what they mean to you.

The question I ask is mainly is mainly to female readers on board. How would you take it to get email from some one you know a few years before saying they were and still are in love with you. Would it freak you out?

You are freaking me out

biko

1. Mail her and see if she'd be up for a drink sometime to reminisce? Spend some time together before doing anything rash. You may not actually like her as much when you meet her now.

2. Use Personal Issues forum for more serious answers You just posted in Witty Response forum.

RonMexico

Leave out a can of chum and see what happens. Lassie come home is not just a film.












Sorry I thought this was about a lost dog.

Kiera

biko wrote: »

1. Mail her and see if she'd be up for a drink sometime to reminisce? Spend some time together before doing anything rash. You may not actually like her as much when you meet her now.

2. Use Personal Issues forum for more serious answers You just posted in Witty Response forum.

Ya think?

biko

See, witty response ^^^

Elenxor

A few years...

Yes of course you should get in touch...
She will be delighted to take her life off hold and she is sitting by the phone as we speak, delighted that you have finally made your mind up.!!!!!!!:rolleyes:

OutlawPete

Elenxor wrote: »

A few years...

Yes of course you should get in touch...
She will be delighted to take her life off hold and she is sitting by the phone as we speak, delighted that you have finally made your mind up.!!!!!!!:rolleyes:

If it was in a movie or some chick lit book where a guy comes back to his long lost love expressing his regret and telling her that he made a mistake and that he is still in love with her, you'd have a box of Kleenex out, a tub of ice cream and be texting your mates at how she had him from: "Hello.."

Give the OP a break, this could be the first After Hours wedding here

bronte

Awww, send her an email OP.
Not too full on now!

prinz

You're no Feeky, that's for sure.

Wazdakka

Mail her and see if she wants to meet up as friends,
Then you can judge her response from there.

But remember, life isn't perfect and there is no way that you can control or change somebody elses true feelings.
So when you do meet up with her, if it isn't going as well as you would like it to...
You may have to just Roofie the bítch and drag her back to your place.

But remember op.. No means NO...
Unless you use duct tape... Then it means "MMMMmmMmnnNNnmm"

Sea Sharp

Be sure to make a reference to the lizard-people in your email and tell her that if she doesn't get back with you there will be drastic consequences!!

It's sure to work!

Max Power1

OutlawPete wrote: »

If it was in a movie or some chick lit book where a guy comes back to his long lost love expressing his regret and telling her that he made a mistake and that he is still in love with her, you'd have a box of Kleenex out, a tub of ice cream and be texting your mates at how she had him from: "Hello.."

Give the OP a break, this could be the first After Hours wedding here

Id say that would be more true of the intervening years TBH

ballsymchugh

find her on facespace and add all her friends. only the hot ones, mind. then start turning up to what she's been asked to flanked by all your new hot biatches with a pipe.
i'm surprised no one has said pics or gtfo yet. we'll have to judge whether or not she's worth the hassle.

Gmol

Tell her you've had a baby and it's hers

antodeco

Just go onto her facebook page and stalk from afar. That's what I do!

Wazdakka

antodeco wrote: »

Just go onto her facebook page and stalk from afar. That's what I do!

Me too..

*looks at link in antodecco's sig*



*fap fap fap*

biko

Jigsaw?

Vegeta

damn you biko I had literally just typed that and had to do a Ninja edit to save face

Mr.Applepie

TheZohan wrote: »

Very true.

Women love surprises and to be swept off their feet. Why not kidnap her?

That's coming on way to strong imho. Try stalking her first.... after all she could have changed since last saw her. Checkout the airsoft forum for some good camouflage gear.

Pittens

Or if she wanted contact she would have done so too?

Well, he hasn't and he does want contact.

I think what we can take from this is this: silence means nothing.