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Is it normal relationship?

  • 01-04-2010 8:02pm
    #1
    Jola1981
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3 ✭


    I’m from Poland and meeting with the Irish guy for the last 9 mounts. Don’t really want to describe my entire situation, but I have a few questions. I realised already deference between polish and Irish guys...and please don’t get me wrong, don’t doesn’t really matter for me from with country is who. Are all Irish guys so easy going and slowly into start something serious? We meeting only once maybe twice a week, he is not really calling me over the week, sometimes on Friday when he doesn’t have any plans. But always at the first place are his friends. I know when we finally met its great and he is really showing me that he cares. I know all his friends and he knows mine, but much more often he is just going out without me. We never really had a serious chat about us and I don’t even know how to start one, don’t want to scare him off....but I really want to know what he really thinking about all this. Any advice is this?Thanks.


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  • #2
    Ickle Magoo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 17,485 ✭✭✭✭Ickle Magoo


    I don't think there really is any set "normal" parameters...your relationship is what you want and what you allow it to be. You've been together for nine months, you should just have a chat with him about where you are going and what you both want from a relationship and take it from there.


  • #3
    S23
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 526 ✭✭✭S23


    Yeah Magoo is spot on. There is no set template for how a relationship goes. However, I will say you seem to feel a bit neglected and having been with this lad for 9 months I think you are more than entitled to sit him down and ask him where you are going with this. If he sees it as very casual and going nowhere in a hurry you are entitled to know at this stage.


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