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Should i go for it or not

  • 31-03-2010 11:57pm
    #1
    bluebird10
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2 ✭


    hey all

    im 23 and have been recently texting this girl i have liked for a while, she is 20 but recently she told me when she was younger around when she was 13or 14 that she was with my younger brother who is four years younger than me! now i dont know what to do even tho i kinda like the girl.


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  • #2
    Kevster
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,980 ✭✭✭Kevster


    There are variables here that need to be cleared up. For example, is your brother in a relationship right now? If he is, then it would make it easier for him to be okay with you dating her. Also, how long long have you been in touch (via SMS/text-message) with this girl? I think you should be suspicious about her true intentions. Perhaps she is only thrilled by the thought of 'scoring' two brothers, but maybe she genuinely likes you for who you are. I'm not to know.

    If I was in your situation, I would feel uncomfortable about dating an ex of one of my brothers; and would rather be alone/single.

    Kevin


  • #3
    bluebird10
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2 ✭bluebird10


    he never went out with her he just scored her once when they were kids. It was a once off


  • #4
    UrbanSea
    Closed Accounts Posts: 18,335 ✭✭✭✭UrbanSea


    I don't agree with the opinion that she might just be using you to get the 'two brothers'
    What happened was years ago,she was big enough to say it to you before ye even started dating or anything. I'd give her a chance if you like her.


  • #5
    Cunsiderthis
    Closed Accounts Posts: 471 ✭✭Cunsiderthis


    greetings wrote: »
    I don't agree with the opinion that she might just be using you to get the 'two brothers'
    What happened was years ago,she was big enough to say it to you before ye even started dating or anything. I'd give her a chance if you like her.

    I agree that there is no evidence that she is that calculating!

    Go for it and find out for yourself if she might be the one. If she is, Wonderful! If not, then enjoy the experience!


  • #6
    kjl
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,127 ✭✭✭kjl


    as in kissed?

    who cares? she was 14, I used to go out and kiss about 7 girls a night when I was 14, I wouldn't worry nor care if my brother went out with any of them.

    I think there is more holding you back than this.


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