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This boy is driving me mad!! opinions??

  • 31-03-2010 3:44pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    OK so this is the story.

    I started working with a guy in my job a few months back. We wouldn't work together regularly, but see each other the odd time. A while ago, I had to go to his house for work related stuff and we ended up chatting about loads of things. He had a girlfriend but was kind of flirty. He showed me drawings he had done, art stuff, that wasn't exactly work related.

    He would say things like oh I can have one last fling before I'm married etc.

    A while back he broke up with his girlfriend. I texted him about work stuff and he ended up telling me what had happened and asked me to meet him for a drink. I did, his friend was there and we talked and had a laugh. The friend left after about an hour and we ended up talking about relationships etc. He would come out with weird things though like "I was in work today and was talking to this girl who said she went out last night with her friend. I asked her what she did all night and she said talk about you. She then started touching my face like this and I was into it so just let her"

    At this point he would start touching my face or playing with my hair. I have to say we were both pretty gone by this stage. He asked me to go back to his, and said we could get more drink there, so I did. We ended up watching a dvd. He said things though like when he was turning off the lights. Do you mind if I turn off the lights, don't worry I'm not trying to come onto you, this would be the least romantic thing to watch if I was.


    He said I might as well stay, so I did - in the spare bedroom. He brought me upstairs, showed me where it was and that was it. He didnt try anything at all.


    After that he got back with the girlfriend but broke up again.


    He is just giving mixed messages and I dont know what to think. Does he like me does he not? It's driving me mad!!


Comments

  • #2
    Kiera
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13,130 ✭✭✭✭Kiera


    TBH it sounds like you were just someone to keep his mind off the break up. If he wanted you, he would have made a move that night when you were alone. Sorry to sound so harsh. I also dont think mixing working and love are ever a good idea. I'd let this one go if i were you.


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