Missed opportunity

LegacyUser

Hi Guys, hopefully someone can drum some sense into me. Now i met this guy through a mutual friend and i really liked him. We got on well, i had and still have a crush on him.
Last night a friend of ours was playing and he was there(now i don't have any contact details for him) he was there with the new girl he's seeing.
I was heartbroken

They've been dating for 3months now, i spoke to her briefly and she seems like a nice girl. The thing is i am so jealous and so heartbroken; i really liked him. We always had this thing were he would be watching me and vice versa and the one being watched would catch the others eye. It happened a few times yesterday and i just can't help but think 'missed opportunity' i know i need to stop thinking about him but i can't.

I've never had the balls to chat up a guy but i really regret never making my intentions known to this guy

LegacyUser

Hi too late. Sorry to hear about your dilemna. It's so frustrating when something like that happens. Truthfully though, given that he's with somebody else now you should probably let it go. You don't want to be the homewrecker! I've no doubt you'll find someone even better. There's plenty more fish in the sea even if it seems like the pond is drying up :-)

LegacyUser

toolate wrote: »

Hi Guys, hopefully someone can drum some sense into me. Now i met this guy through a mutual friend and i really liked him. We got on well, i had and still have a crush on him.
Last night a friend of ours was playing and he was there(now i don't have any contact details for him) he was there with the new girl he's seeing.
I was heartbroken

They've been dating for 3months now, i spoke to her briefly and she seems like a nice girl. The thing is i am so jealous and so heartbroken; i really liked him. We always had this thing were he would be watching me and vice versa and the one being watched would catch the others eye. It happened a few times yesterday and i just can't help but think 'missed opportunity' i know i need to stop thinking about him but i can't.

I've never had the balls to chat up a guy but i really regret never making my intentions known to this guy

Sounds to me that you don't meet many guys. When you do meet one you develop feelings for them very quickly. These feelings are based more on not having someone in your life rather than the actual person.
Go out and chat to guys and meet new people and you will forget about him in days/hours.

LegacyUser

dfgdfgdfgd wrote: »

Sounds to me that you don't meet many guys. When you do meet one you develop feelings for them very quickly. These feelings are based more on not having someone in your life rather than the actual person.
Go out and chat to guys and meet new people and you will forget about him in days/hours.

I loled when i read that

I do meet many men; and majority of my friends are male. Apparently i'm the girl no one understands. Because i'm very friendly, i flirt but i have my boundaries. I have been hurt before; and i'm very cautious because i don't want to be anyones 'fcuk buddy'.

I do understand that i have to let go, i was close to adding him on facebook today but i'll leave things as they are.