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My so called mess of a life
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24-03-2010 7:11pm#1
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That's very bad advice techni-fan.
It's hardly a good idea to leave college in your 3rd year. Once she finishes she will have more prospects of getting a half decent job (even in current climate) - especially as she has a child to raise.
Break it down OP. If money is a major issue go to MABs and see what you can do initially re. finances.
Other than that I'm not clear on what the most major issues are for you but well done on studying and raising your daughter alone
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If sounds like you are going through a real hard spot.
The best thing to do is to focus on the end result. Draw up a plan of campaign with regards to study and money, speak to your bank manager if you can and see if they can help you draw up some kind of financial plan and keep focussing on getting your qualification and getting a good job.
Do you have any way of meeting other parents in the area if baby-sitters are hard to find? I met a load of new people when my wee man started school so that's something else to look forward to.
Try to keep hold of the positives, it's really hard now but hopefully this will be the worst things ever get. Once you have the ability to get a good job and get more money, your wee person will start school and life will get better and easier, keep your chin up, you're fantastic job juggling everything!
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girlwitcurls wrote: »single mom to beautiful four year old.
Fair play to you, you are obviously a good Mumgirlwitcurls wrote: »in third year of college course.
Fair play to you, you are obviously smart.girlwitcurls wrote: »completely broke.overdraft-drawn and loans
Like the most of us, im afraidgirlwitcurls wrote: »no family support at all.
That is hard, but so far you seem to be doing pretty well without their support!girlwitcurls wrote: »best friend moving to australia for the year next month.
Texts to Oz are about 15c, email is free and you can skype.girlwitcurls wrote: »relationship ended 2 months ago.
Sorry to hear that, and the break up may be to raw for you right now but it will get better and there will come a time where you will go "phew, glad im no longer with them"girlwitcurls wrote: »live in an ok place but know noone
Yes you do know people, you know people in college, living around your area etc you just havent struck up a friendship with them yet, try and do this, even if you are shy (i dont know, im just saying even if) you have nothing to lose by talking to "strangers" and seeing if you click and become friends.girlwitcurls wrote: »
im slowly crumbling..
I dont beleive that for one second a smart lady who can raise a beautiful 4 year old daughter, with no family support and with under financial duress is crumbling! Your having a "oh ****, everything is kinda ontop of me" time at the moment and you will be fine, just realise all you have achieved, your potential to achieve so much more and keep going, you are doing better than you think, i for one admire you and what you have achieved and i dont know you from Adam! 0 -
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