Upsetting

LegacyUser

I hope this story does not upset anyone, I am unregistered for this one.

My girlfriend & I got pregnant a few months ago. We ended up disagreeing over a number of issues and could not seem to get to a point where we agreed. We rowed over a lot of things until one day she phoned me & told me the baby was no more. She had a termination. I didn't think she would.

It has triggered off a depression inside of me. I don't blame her at all. Maybe she was just frightened at doing things on her own. We broke up shortly after that but I really don't feel I can move on at all. I constantly feel like crying and my family don't know the truth, they think she had a miscarriage. I'm too ashamed to tell anyone. In a lot of ways I feel my life is over and I've lost something I will never get back. Maybe she has too. Sometimes I just feel it's the most upsetting thing that has ever happened to me.

I don't know if I will ever get over it or if I will ever be a dad. I miss her too which makes things twice as difficult.

Any ideas or opinions welcome.

Nevyn

Sounds like with all the disagreements she didn't see how you could raise a kid between you. Post abortion couselling isn't just for women, I suggest you make an apointment and go talk to someone professionally.

www.postiveoptions.ie