Am I right to be pee-d off?

LegacyUser

I'll give a brief run down of the situation as I need some insight on it!

GF was off on Holidays for the last week or so, no complaints here and was glad to have her back. So she asks me to drop over and we can grab some food. I had some plans already, but sure first time seeing her in a while so I was more then happy to drop over. Turns out we can grab some food, while she runs around getting ready for a night out with the girls who were coming over soon. Cue some aimless running around as girls do while I watch Tv.

Sods law I guess. Annoyed, but I decided to keep it to myself. Asked her to give me a shout after the night out, let me know if all was well and if she wanted me over, as no one else was around that night in hers and we are going through a nice dry spell spanning months at this point..

Cue no call or text for the night.

Surprised at how annoyed I actually am, i'm usually pretty lax. Would anyone else be really annoyed over this?

Lillylilly

You're well within your rights to be annoyed- if my boyfriend was treating me like that, I would nnot be impressed! Sounds like you're taking a bit of a backseat at the minute.

miec

Surprised at how annoyed I actually am, i'm usually pretty lax. Would anyone else be really annoyed over this?

I am not surprised you are annoyed, I think you are being too lax here, I know it is important to give each other space but her behaviour is plain cold and callous. It does not sound like that she missed you or wanted to be with you at all. Also if things have been dry for months that is not good, there is a problem, you need to ask her what is going on and tell her you are very annoyed at being used as a filler until her friends come round and she has a night out.

LegacyUser

Hey op,I would be pretty annoyed as well,its not surprising you are and dont feel like you are not within your right to be,because you are.Its was slightly selfish and sounds like she has taken you for granted.In saying that she may not be aware of how she has acted.And only way you will know is if you sit down and tell her.
You were let down and not happy about it.Don't go all guns blazing because never solves it.
There is a saying if you don't tell a person their actions sometimes they don't know themselves and carry on unaware.Call someone on it,and if they do care they will say sorry and not do it again.If she doesn't care then you are better off out.If you are usually such a laid back person could be one of reasons it didn't even cross her mind.
Best of luck

LegacyUser

After talking, turns out she got pretty drunk, blacked out and got home.

Got an apology of sorts. Still something bugging me about it all. Very rarely does she get black outs, if ever.

Floppybits

I think you have every right to be pee'd off. Reading your post I am thinking that your gf might want out of the relationship but is too afraid to say it and might be carrying on this way to force you to make the decision or else she may be fed up with your easy going nature? I really think you need to sit her down and ask her what is the story with the relationship and maybe be ready for some bad news.:(