Mixed signals

LegacyUser

I met this girl a while back and as we met up through mutual friends I thought she was flirting with me, and I guess I was towards her. A few weeks later I asked her out and she said yes and we swopped numbers. A few days later I called her, got no answer, left a VM. she texted back the next day to say sorry she missed the call. I called one more time and again no answer so left a VM saying to call or text if she gets this. Got a text saying she will call me back later. Got no phone call back so assumed she was avoiding me and changed her mind about going out so I just left it alone. A few weeks passed and I met her again through the same set of friends, and she asked where I had been for the past few weeks. I had been away out of the country and told her this but I also deliberately didn't contact her as I thought she wasn't interested in going out, I didn't want to come across as a stalker! She did say she was sick herself. So I still like this girl but not sure where I stand. Do I ask her again if she wants to meet up? Or do I let sleeping dogs lie? She seems to be sending mixed signals and we do meet each other through mutual friends from time to time.

How Strange

From what you said she's playing games.

Anyone who meets a person they're really interested in will do whatever they can to meet them.

I once met a guy for a date when I had strep troat and a roaring temperature. I could hardly get out of bed. Granted it was pre mobile phone days so it was either that leave him standing outside Bewleys but still I liked him and I wanted to meet him.

I'd leave it be if it were me. IMO, she doesn't seem interested in you but hadn't the guts to tell you to your face when you met again.

AARRRGH

I think you have nothing to lose by giving it another shot, but definitely drop her if she starts messing you about again.

My gut instinct tells me she has another guy on the go, and isn't sure what to make of him yet.