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One way relationship

  • 13-03-2010 11:05pm
    #1
    daveo90
    Closed Accounts Posts: 50 ✭✭


    Hey All,

    I've noticed now for a long time that i seem to be the one in our relationship thats seems to make the effort to suggest doing anything or meeting up.

    going out afew years now, but it seems like if i didnt suggest going out or doing anything we'd never meet up. Like I seem to be the one saying lets do this or that ...well the very odd time he might feel he'd have to invite me out if people i know were going out aswell.. he might suggest it once and just not bring it up again.

    Anyone else seem to have this problem?


Comments

  • #2
    cafecolour
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,328 ✭✭✭cafecolour


    Yeah, I've definitely been there before - it leaves you feeling taken for granted and feeling like you like him more than he likes you.

    If he goes out a lot and is active, but never thinks to call you, that's more of a bad sign.

    If he's doesn't tend to do much at all except when you call, well that just means he's more lazy or just more of a homebody, though it leaves you still feeling taken for granted.


  • #3
    StillWaters
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,799 ✭✭✭StillWaters


    This dynamic didn't just happen by itself, you colluded to make it happen. If you are no longer happy with it, you have 2 choices:
    Play a game and don't organise anything, see what happens or..
    Talk about it, and air how you would like your partner to be more proactive in organising things.


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