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Doubts

  • 12-03-2010 2:48pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Does everyone have doubts about their relationship?

    My partner has been away for a week and I have not really missed or thought about them at all. I'll be glad when they are back but I have been thinking this week that they love me mroe than I love them-they have said this a couple of times.

    Are doubts normal? We are in love and I want to marry them and settle down, but I don't think they are "THE ONE" or a "SOULMATE". Is that movie nonsense? I don't believe in it but I thought being in love would be more rollercoaster and heartache, not just nice, calm, secure feelings.


Comments

  • #2
    Squinny
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6 ✭Squinny


    I had a similar expieriance last week. My Boyfriend was away for a week, all during the week, i told him i missed him everyday but in reality, i was glad of the break.
    Do you and your partner spend a lot of time together? you might just need the time to do yout own thing and thats perfectly normal.

    when my boyfriend got home last Sunday night, i couldnt have been happier to see him and was delighted to have him back.


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Yes, i'm interested in this. should you miss your partner when they are away, or is it normal not to miss them all the time


  • #4
    vicecreamsundae
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 793 ✭✭✭vicecreamsundae


    i think it's completely normal and healthy to not miss you partner hugely...especially when it's only a week! i would just be loving the fact i get to sleep spread out in the bed and have the remote to myself.
    if they were going for a month it would be a different story.

    i don't believe in soulmates, and i think there is a LOT to be said for a stable, loving secure relationship as opposed to a dramatic rollercoaster. comfortable is not a dirty word, so long as you don't take each other for granted.


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