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feel really messed up

  • 12-03-2010 11:53am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Well basically i really feel like my relationships with women (or lack of) is a mess. i havent ever had a girlfriend and im 23 and have only had sex less then a handful of times and i didnt enjoy it or perform well because i was kind of up tight and nervous. for a long time a good while i just said fcuk it and put it to the back of my mind, i was happy enough been alone and doing my own thing.

    but over the last long while i have felt a great void in my life, i definitly am missing something, i would really like to have a girlfriend or go out with someone for awhile. i dont think one night stands are really my thing, id probably be too drunk and nervous like the other times to enjoy it.

    the problem is i have become infatuated by a girl who i have no chance i think of ever been with. i cant help it, i feel so immature but she is a beautiful person (inside and out).we were out the other night and there was a girl all over me but i really didnt give a sh7t about her i just wanted the girl im crazy about..but she pretty much told me in conversation yesterday she sees me as just a friend and i felt like i had just been punched in the face.

    i know what to do forget about her and move on but its easier said then done, i really feel like sh7t right now. i feel like im a very picky person when it comes to women and i dont think i have the right to be, i feel so shallow i feel like i look for the bad in people. i will only go for a girl i like who will probably be too good looking for me, at the moment i cant get this girl out of my head even though i havent a chance with her, andit pretty much sums up why i havent had a girlfriend. i dunno if im making any sense writing this but any thoughts would be very much appreciated i feel all over the place.


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  • #2
    daveo90
    Closed Accounts Posts: 50 ✭✭daveo90


    I was like that aswell afew years ago, im a very good looking guy but getting women was an issue because i am a nervous enough guy.. funny thing was I ended up seeing a guy! lol

    Weirdly felt right !

    Now im not saying you do the same!! LOL..

    You will find the right person and when you do sex won't be an issue at all..well it shouldn't be if they are nice..and make you feel comfortable


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