like to be liked?

6th

It used to be important to me but i've only just realised that i really dont give a sh1t anymore? It used to be that the idea of someone having an issue with me bugged the piss out of me. So what about the rest of you?

6th

btw i think it was boards that cured me

Hagar

Being liked? Naw.
Being 6th? Naw.
Being 1st? Yahay!!!

brummytom

I used to want to be liked, now I couldn't give a fuck really... if someone doesn't like me... meh, their loss

m@cc@

6th wrote: »

It used to be important to me but i've only just realised that i really dont give a sh1t anymore? It used to be that the idea of someone having an issue with me bugged the piss out of me. So what about the rest of you?

Your answer is totally different to the question. Do I like to be liked? Of course. Do I care about being liked? Not so much.

Mahatma coat

there are a lot of Situations where Being Hated makes things a lot easier.

funky penguin

Like War?

Danbo!

My shameless thanks whoring on this site would suggest I am an attention seeking asshole who strives in every way to be liked and/or accepted by people I don't even know, so, yeah, I guess I do care

That_Guy

I used to be liked but then everyone found out that I leave my fast food trays on the table when I'm done.... My social status went straight down like a cheap whore.

Bolag_the_2nd

like me or loath me, i am who i am, deal with it!

Don't care what anyone thinks of me in work.. I barely try hold a conversation with some people. Outside work, I wouldn't mind people not liking me but bitching about me would annoy me.

BLACKEN

6th wrote: »

It used to be important to me but i've only just realised that i really dont give a sh1t anymore? It used to be that the idea of someone having an issue with me bugged the piss out of me. So what about the rest of you?

Congratulations................... your now a god among insects!

CreepingDeath

6th wrote: »

It used to be important to me but i've only just realised that i really dont give a sh1t anymore?

Your extensive photo campaign in "know your nerds" would seem to indicate otherwise.

star.chaser

yeah, i think everyone experiences this sooner or later. the next level is giving those people a proper reason to have an issue with you. that's the fun part :pac:

AnonoBoy

Getting old is great isn't it?

pikachucheeks

If people don't like me, that's their decision and opinion ... I couldn't care less. I know who I am, as does anyone who matters to me.

I think, people should have to have a valid reason for disliking each other. If someone's being nasty and giving you grief when you haven't done anything to warrant that sort of behaviour, it becomes petty and pathetic.

stovelid

Basic rule: anybody who asserts that they're not worried if they're liked or not is generally very worried indeed. Or at the very least, are manfully battling a massive prior affirmation addiction.

AnonoBoy

stovelid wrote: »

Basic rule: anybody who asserts that they're not worried if they're liked or not is generally very worried indeed.

So if you say you're not worried it means you are and if you say you are worried you are?

The only way to not be worried is to say nothing at all.

I see.

sidneykidney

6th i seen you in the jervis centre last friday(at least i think it was you). And i was gonna say hi,glad i didnt now,cause you wouldnt have given a ****..:p

stovelid

AnonoBoy wrote: »

The only way to not be worried is to say nothing at all.

Bingo.

Although I can't really see how anybody would really relish being widely disliked, even on the net - as in disliked if they were not contriving it for their own reasons.

AnonoBoy

stovelid wrote: »

Bingo.

In that case.........
































........... nothing to see here.

Kiera

CreepingDeath wrote: »

Your extensive photo campaign in "know your nerds" would seem to indicate otherwise.

+1.

44 pics and the next poster to you has 22. You dont want to be liked, 6th. You want to be LOVED!

partyguinness

I was once told..."Only care about the opinion of those you respect"

I dont give a **** what anyone thinks of me because I think 99% of people are complete idiots anyway.

Just as long as I am acknowledged as:

1. Being excellant at my job;
2. being fair and reasonable;
3. Fantastic in the sack;
4. Not somebody to be ****ed with.

Then I am content and not in the least bit bothered about whether I am liked or not as long as the belief is reasonably held by that person..:)...that type of school yard **** is for insecure teenagers.

Deep down I enjoy winding people up...

HalloweenJack

1st wrote: »

Being liked? Naw.
Being 6th? Naw.
Being 1st? Yahay!!!

Did you sign up just to post that?

Wazdakka

Everyone likes me.

It's because I'm awesome

dr.bollocko

I'm like marmite.
Holy bearded marmite.

alwaysadub

Meh,not too bothered either way. If people like me,all well and good,if they don't,that's their problem. I'm not going to lose any sleep over whether someone likes me or not.

I like myself now,and that's the most important thing .

epgc3fyqirnbsx

People who hate me learn to love me

People who love me learn to hate me

There's a brief window in the middle where the like me and I like it there!

Hagar

HalloweenJack wrote: »

Did you sign up just to post that?

Nope, I joined yesterday. 6th made his post this morning. Maybe I'm psychic?

tony 2 tone

6th wrote: »

btw i think it was boardsthe CT forum that cured me

FYP

GrizzlyMan

Couldnt Give a fu4K!!

as that old cheesy quote:"Id rather to be hated for who i am,than loved for who im not":rolleyes:

anniehoo

I pretend i couldnt give a crap...but i secretly do! Im a total people pleaser and am getting worse as i get older

ps. as a side note...wheres Ranting & Raving gone to or am i goin blind?

Latchy

Some people can find something simple or trivial to dislike about somebody then build it up and feed off it

It's more important to like yourself then to be hung up or worried about being liked by others .

That's one good thing about getting older , you care less and less about who does or doesn't .

Truley

This thread reads like a fourteen year old girl's bebo page...

alwaysadub

anniehoo wrote: »

ps. as a side note...wheres Ranting & Raving gone to or am i goin blind?

It's gone private-pm one of the R & R mods for access

partyguinness

Truley wrote: »

This thread reads like a fourteen year old girl's bebo page...

So do you stalk many 14 yr olds then?:D

Truley

partyguinness wrote: »

So do you stalk many 14 yr olds then?:D

nope but I was one, many moons ago

partyguinness

Truley wrote: »

nope but I was one, many moons ago

Well if you were using Bebo then it clndt have been that long ago...;)

star.chaser

Truley wrote: »

This thread reads like a fourteen year old girl's bebo page...

and what are you doing browsing 14 year olds bebo pages??

Wazdakka

Truley wrote: »

This thread reads like a fourteen year old girl's bebo page...

Well this thread just got a whole lot sexier...

biko

I like to be liked, or I'd like to be liked.
Or is that "licked"?

Gillington

Doesnt everyone strive to be liked by people in some manner? The world would be a very un-competitive place if they didnt!

AnonMous

"I'd prefer to be hated for the person I am,
than to be loved for the person i'm not".

Heard that quote recently.

I used always worry about what people thought of me, now I couldn't care less!

4zn76tysfajdxp

AnonMous wrote: »

"I'd prefer to be hated for the person I am,
than to be loved for the person i'm not".

Heard that quote recently.

An hour and seven minutes before you posted, perhaps?

pikachucheeks

anniehoo wrote: »

ps. as a side note...wheres Ranting & Raving gone to or am i goin blind?

It's private. You have to apply for access now ...

MaybeLogic

pikachucheeks wrote: »

It's private. You have to apply for access now ...

I´d like to have a Rant and Rave about them making it private but nowhere to go now. :mad: