Lost spark

LegacyUser

Was going out with my ex-girlfriend for 4 years before we broke up recently. Things got bad between us and we were fighting so we agreed to end it. The thing is, I have tried to move on and I can't. I realise now, more than ever she is the only one for me. She knows this now, and we have talked about it but she doesn't feel the same anymore. We are hanging out alot lately and having fun together, but we are not together. She tells me she still cares for me, but not enough to be with me and that we have lost our spark. Is there anything I can do about this? Thanks for reading.

Angus Og

You can't maintain a friendship with someone you are in love with, unless they are in love with you.

You need to stop hanging around with her. It's just going to hurt you, and she has already made herself clear. Honestly, I'm surprised that she is doing this to you. It really isn't fair, especially when, as you have said, she knows how you feel.

Please try to make a break from her, for your own sake.

Sephiroth_dude

The above poster is right,you'd be better off just cutting contact with her and trying to move on with your life.