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barewithme

  • 24-02-2010 2:53am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I'm writing this so I don't text him. Sorry in advance. After 2years, he broke up with me four months ago. I'm still devastated. we have all the same friends, live on the same area, same work area. I'm broken hearted over him. I knew straight off that cutting him out of my life was gona be near impossible. Handled myself fine (mostly) and then last week, in the middle of a pretty **** day I ran into him. we did the 'act normal and pretend everything is ok dance'. it was such bull****, nothing was right, nothing at all and so I had to make it worse for myself and I texted him. Basically told him I still loved him.

    I know I'm idiot, half of me is kicking myself cause I'm avoiding everyone in case I see him. Half of me is delighted I've told him (even though I know his mind is made up) he didn't reply for days. I felt ok, I thought he knows now and just doesn't give a beep anymore. His reply when it came was that he was sorry he didn't get in touch but his head was a mess over work when he got the message. I haven't replied. I've deleted his number, I've given him up for lent. But I know I'll have to see him sometime. Do I send a text, clear the air, if so what do I say? Sorry for being the headwreaking ex? or just wait til I see him randomly at a friends house or in the shop or something? I can't seem to step ouside the situation and give myself advice.


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  • #2
    Angus Og
    Closed Accounts Posts: 401 ✭✭Angus Og


    "Sorry for being the headwreaking ex"

    That would work in a text, but then again, it sounds like you are still being a headwrecker.

    Do you really think you are going to be able to say that if you are together at a friend's house or down the shop?

    You do need to cut off contact if there is no hope of reconciliation, but it might be a good idea to clear the air in person. He doesn't sound like he's holding a grudge, so approach the situation in a mature manner. At the moment it is all assumption based on a guess or a feeling. If that continues, you won't get a clean break, especially since your lives are so close together.

    Anyway, be completely honest when you talk to him, and tell him you want his honest opinion. Then there won't be any doubt.


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